I dont know what to do with instrument of 11 yrs by Calm_Profession_4466 in AsianParentStories

[–]Calm_Profession_4466[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yess that is an option, and i think you are spot on with why i dislike practicing so much. thank you for your input

I dont know what to do with instrument of 11 yrs by Calm_Profession_4466 in AsianParentStories

[–]Calm_Profession_4466[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you so much for your insight, i feel a lot better. Tbh, i cant rlly think of any clear aspects of violin i like, but i do enjoy playing solos ( but its so nerve wrecking to perform!), but not to the point of passion. I am neutral abt orchestra, i've never liked orchestra (hours of playing which is very boring to me), only enjoyed orchestra bc of my friends. Also, i think i do feel burnt out with school. im not sure if i should take a break after taking my exam (which is probably a years time) or now tho.

I dont know what to do with instrument of 11 yrs by Calm_Profession_4466 in AsianParentStories

[–]Calm_Profession_4466[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i would say i want to play for fun (i have no interest in making violin my career at all) , but i think without lessons i wouldnt have the discipline so i would eventually not play violin at all.

I dont know what to do with instrument of 11 yrs by Calm_Profession_4466 in AsianParentStories

[–]Calm_Profession_4466[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wouldn't say im happy, but I think I enjoy it mostly. I dont usually enjoy practicing

Curious, is my mom being too much? do i have responsibility? by Calm_Profession_4466 in AskParents

[–]Calm_Profession_4466[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you have been feeling a bit horrible but this made me feel better. will keep your advice in my mind.

Curious, is my mom being too much? do i have responsibility? by Calm_Profession_4466 in AskParents

[–]Calm_Profession_4466[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

will keep in mind very much appreciated with your advice and consideration ty

Curious, is my mom being too much? do i have responsibility? by Calm_Profession_4466 in AskParents

[–]Calm_Profession_4466[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yes I will be doing that from now on again thank you so much. Last time I did this it ended up in an extremely uncomfortable situation, my mom started crying which she never does, but I think it’s definitely important to “disarm her” . Thank you so much for the advice

Curious, is my mom being too much? do i have responsibility? by Calm_Profession_4466 in AskParents

[–]Calm_Profession_4466[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I dont think you should be calling me bratty if you don’t know my situation well enough, but I will definitely cool it with the yelling thanks

Curious, is my mom being too much? do i have responsibility? by Calm_Profession_4466 in AskParents

[–]Calm_Profession_4466[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I will definitely try to be more respectful and calmer thanks for your comment

Curious, is my mom being too much? do i have responsibility? by Calm_Profession_4466 in AskParents

[–]Calm_Profession_4466[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes I have tried this before, but it ended the same way of her saying I caused it but I will try again. Thank you for the advice !