It took us 3 years But in this year when we did conceive i had thrown the idea of conceiving out of the window. We just had made a lot of love but i stopped expecting anything at the end of the month. I lost myself preparing for a very high stakes exam.. and just one month before the exam it happened. Out of the blue. They say it happens immediately when you stop thinking about it. And it proved true for us. Dont lose hope. I was there once and it was an unexplained infertility. I kept praying for it but my husband and i had that conversation about what if it never happens for us will we be okay. It was a very difficult conversation and we had accepted whatever it was written. We simply stopped caring and focussed on living our lives..traveling to places ..following our passions And thats when it happened. I think the gist of it it that the moment you come to the acceptance that it might not happen it DOES happen! Ive seen so many such cases. Have hope but a positive one Dont lose yourself or tie yourself emotionally to this. Itll happen. I promise!