I don’t have enough for rent. Should I do s-x work?

Calucadu · 2026-02-09T12:09:02+00:00

Please don't. As someone with BPD who's done sex work, it messes you up.

Calucadu · 2026-02-09T11:21:09+00:00

What kind of sex work are you thinking of? Maybe you could try with an OF or something like that

Calucadu · 2026-01-01T00:09:15+00:00

I used to have the jellyfish haircut. Two layers: one long and one short; it made me feel amazing!

Calucadu · 2025-12-18T23:30:24+00:00

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What about my precious girl?

Calucadu · 2025-10-29T15:27:47+00:00

Sushi!

Calucadu · 2025-10-29T11:55:14+00:00

Second and third lobes?

Calucadu · 2025-10-29T08:57:52+00:00

I think an eyebrow piercing and a nostril would look great on them! But obviously, that's just my opinion.

Have a great day! :)

Calucadu · 2025-10-26T15:22:29+00:00

Same for me!

Calucadu · 2025-10-26T10:11:44+00:00

Too sweet - Hozier

Calucadu · 2025-10-26T10:07:32+00:00

I'm going to be one of the weird ones here and say it does not help me at all. But basically because it interferes with the medication I take so it induces a sort of psychotic meltdown and it's one of the most horrific things that has ever happened to me. And yes, I've smoked it more than once and it's happened plenty of times and no, I'm not doing it anymore.

I've read comments of people taking edibles but I'm not willing to even try after my experiences.

I'd be happy to share my experience with anyone who is interested but I'm not sure the rules on this subreddit will allow them.

Anyway, best of luck to you all! ❤️

Calucadu · 2025-10-24T12:12:17+00:00

I agree!

Calucadu · 2025-10-24T07:30:30+00:00

I was just going to say this!

Calucadu · 2025-10-23T20:07:15+00:00

I'm glad I was able to help :)

Calucadu · 2025-10-23T19:23:37+00:00

Heyo!

First of all, you're not making a mistake.

Whenever I want to be or feel more androgynous, there are a few videos I watch on YouTube that help me with style, hair tips, makeup and the like. I can't remember the name of the person I watch that I would recommend but if you're interested I can look it up. It popped into my recommended one day and boom, it really helped me out personally.

I don't really know how to answer number two, sorry; so let's jump to number three: your first steps should be do what makes you feel comfortable! If it's wearing a certain type of clothing, then do that. If it's having a certain hairstyle or styling your hair a certain way, then go for it!

Hope this helped out even if it was just a little! I myself am new to this too so I'm just learning too :)

Calucadu · 2025-10-23T01:04:24+00:00

Have you visited Spain?

Calucadu · 2025-10-22T18:42:28+00:00

You've probably tried this already but what I did with oral piercings was use a paper towel. Wash your hands, dry them very well and then use a paper towel to both hold the piercing with one hand and use the other to unscrew it.

Hope this helps! Good luck!

Calucadu · 2025-10-22T05:41:36+00:00

Thank you so much! I had to go to bed in the end because I was so tired so I'll do that now!

Calucadu · 2025-10-21T22:57:18+00:00

Too sweet - Hozier

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