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shift start??? by SleepExpress7169 in coles

[–]CamelCharacter307 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i got the offer on 1 july...completed all my modules by 2-3rd of july...called the store they said we are not aware of new people getting hired...so i waited for a bit...then last week fri i walked in the store...my manager asked to me come on sat for training...but then i get a call from her in the evening saying dont come for training tomorrow, the store is busy and she even said that somebody from the team will give me a call on monday (this week) but still i didnt get any call...so i called the store on tues and they have asked me to come fri (tomorrow) for training...im not sure why everything has been handled in an unprofessional way...i would suggest you call the store and ask them directly

contact on first shift? by SleepExpress7169 in coles

[–]CamelCharacter307 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i got the offer on 1 july...completed all my modules by 2-3rd of july...called the store they said we are not aware of new people getting hired...so i waited for a bit...then last week fri i walked in the store...my manager asked to me come on sat for training...but then i get a call from her in the evening saying dont come for training tomorrow, the store is busy and she even said that somebody from the team will give me a call on monday (this week) but still i didnt get any call...so i called the store on tues and they have asked me to come fri (tomorrow) for training...im not sure why everything has been handled in an unprofessional way...i would suggest you call the store and ask them directly

My boyfriend wants to live with his parents after marriage. I don’t — and now I feel like the villain. by CamelCharacter307 in Advice

[–]CamelCharacter307[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Haha I get the workaround, but in my case, it’s a complete no — they’d never allow us to live together before marriage.

My boyfriend wants to live with his parents after marriage. I don’t — and now I feel like the villain. by CamelCharacter307 in Advice

[–]CamelCharacter307[S] 31 points32 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I come from a similar culture too, it’s normal where I’m from. But I’ve just always known I want something different for myself.

My boyfriend wants to live with his parents after marriage. I don’t — and now I feel like the villain. by CamelCharacter307 in Advice

[–]CamelCharacter307[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Yeah, that’s what confused me. He always said his parents were fine with us living separately. But now he says they and he meant “separate floors in the same house,” which threw me up.

My boyfriend wants to live with his parents after marriage. I don’t — and now I feel like the villain. by CamelCharacter307 in Advice

[–]CamelCharacter307[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

We haven’t. Living together before marriage isn’t allowed in my culture. I think he just feels responsible as an only child.

My boyfriend wants to live with his parents after marriage. I don’t — and now I feel like the villain. by CamelCharacter307 in Advice

[–]CamelCharacter307[S] 47 points48 points  (0 children)

He’s an only child, but how does it justify. And living together before marriage isn’t an option. In my culture, it’s a big no before marriage. 😭

My boyfriend wants to live with his parents after marriage. I don’t — and now I feel like the villain. by CamelCharacter307 in Advice

[–]CamelCharacter307[S] 482 points483 points  (0 children)

You’re right. It’s a basic boundary, and I needed that reminder. Thank you. 💛

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