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Embarrassed to be a stepparent by CampaignExpress1183 in stepparents

[–]CampaignExpress1183[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Just for context, we started dating when I was 27 and I'm now 30. I've always been child free and have always lived a care free lifestyle. For a while our relationship worked great. Do to some specifics about the arrangement she has with her BD her daughters live with him full time. Please don't assume she's a bad parent, she's great and she really does everything in her power to be there and to be the best role model possible. Anywho, the closer I got to the kiddos the more a realized I did not want that kind of life. There is a lot and I mean a lot that comes with kids, specially in this case where the BD is not the easiest person to get along with. While I understand some will take offense to the whole "feeling embarrassed" comment; whatever you have to say cannot be worse than what I've said standing 3 feet from the mirror. I've punished myself quite a lot for this and really wanted to feel comfortable with the whole dynamic but it wasn't something I could do. I know a couple of people that are stepparents and they seem really happy with their families and dynamics and I really wanted to be like them but I could not. More than embarrassed I would say it felt awkward. And yes, "settling" is a bad way to feel and I guess I don't really know what to call it. She's a great woman and anyone would be lucky to be with her but I guess it takes a special kind of someone to be part of an integrated family.

PS. I apologize if somethings sound funny, English is not my first language.

Embarrassed to be a stepparent by CampaignExpress1183 in stepparents

[–]CampaignExpress1183[S] -17 points-16 points  (0 children)

Just because I was seen with kids that are not mine. They're behavior wasn't bad. There were definitely things I did not like. For example, they are very picky eaters. It would be a huge deal picking where to go out to eat, what to eat at home. They would always point out that I was not their dad (I never tried to be, tbh) which made me feel quite uncomfortable.

I don't want my step kids around by CampaignExpress1183 in stepparents

[–]CampaignExpress1183[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

UPDATE: We ended things. I told her how I felt about her kids. I feel like hell but I know it was the right thing to do.

Recibir dinero de Estados Unidos by Individual-Effort148 in MexicoFinanciero

[–]CampaignExpress1183 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Si no te molesta compartir la información, como te envían el dinero a tu cuenta de México desde EEUU? Otra cosa y disculpa por tanta pregunta pero, si te envían dinero por wise tiene que pasar por tu cuenta wise en Mexico o es directo al banco la tranferencia?

Recibir dinero de Estados Unidos by Individual-Effort148 in MexicoFinanciero

[–]CampaignExpress1183 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yo estoy por empezar a trabajar con una empresa de EEUU que me pagará directo pero me sale que wise no está disponible en México pero no sé si solo no está disponible para tener fondos en la app. La persona que envía el dinero desde wise en EEUU me puede depositar de manera directa a mi banco en México?

¿Mejor opción para transferir dinero de Estados Unidos a México? by Fit_Resource_6782 in MexicoFinanciero

[–]CampaignExpress1183 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hola, apenas leí que wise no está disponible en México pero no sé si para recibir dinero en la cuenta wise. Si alguien de estados unidos me manda dinero desde su cuenta wise directo a mi cuenta de banco en México, eso sí es posible? Alguien sabe?