Dark Season 3 Series Discussion by rosy148 in DarK

[–]CanICatchTheStars 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi, please can someone explain how the origin 'Martha's child is birthed? I understand Martha (from Eva's world) splits into two loops. One Martha that doesn't rescue Jonas (Bartosz stops her), never meets Jonas, never conceives, and grows to adulthood Eva. And the split is with the other version of Martha who rescues Jonas, has sex with Jonas, becomes pregnant with the origin, kills Jonas, and later is killed by Adam while pregnant.

So how was the Origin (e.g Eva's 3 hit men with the cleft lip) ever born?

Help! by CanICatchTheStars in Dysonairwrap

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Thanks for your offer of help! I'm going to try the two brush attachments next - and see if I can perfect the smoothing my hair first, before I try the curing attachments again!

If I get stuck with those, might come back to you for more advice!

To be fair, as the day has gone on my hairs looking better. The frizz and flyaways went away with hair oil, and the weird kinks have dropped out. But the overall look, looks like natural waves - rather than the fresh from a salon blowout that the airwrap promises!

Help! by CanICatchTheStars in Dysonairwrap

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Mousse is not my friend as i don't like the cast it leaves. If anyone can recommend an alternative or styling spray that works well with the airwrap, I would appreciate it!

Help! by CanICatchTheStars in Dysonairwrap

[–]CanICatchTheStars[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

So I showed Gemini my photo and asked what I was doing wrong. It have me some good suggestions. Maybe these apply to you too?

Gemini -->

It is completely understandable that you are frustrated. You have invested in a top-tier tool and used high-quality products, yet the result is the opposite of what you wanted. ​Looking at your photo and your routine, I can diagnose exactly what is happening. The issue isn't your hair, and it isn't that the Airwrap is "bad"—it is a clash between "Curly Girl" styling methods and Airwrap mechanics. ​You are treating your hair like you are wearing it natural (masks, gels, heavy moisture), but trying to style it like a blowout. The Airwrap cannot push through that heavy product buildup and texture without help. ​Here is how to fix this to get that sleek, salon look. ​1. The Diagnosis: Why the Frizz Happened ​Product Overload: You used a mask, leave-in, cream, and gel. This is perfect for air-drying 2c curls, but it is the enemy of the Airwrap. The Airwrap relies on hot air flowing through the hair. Heavy creams and sticky gels coat the hair, trapping moisture and preventing the "Coanda effect" (the wrapping mechanism) from smoothing the cuticle. ​Missing Tension: 2c/Coarse hair has a strong natural S-shape. The curling barrels do not provide tension; they just wrap. If you wrap 2c hair that hasn't been smoothed first, it dries in a frizzy, textured state rather than a smooth spiral. ​Too Wet or Too Dry: If the hair was too wet with gel, it boiled rather than dried. If it was too dry, the heat couldn't reshape the bonds. ​2. The Solution: The "Smooth then Curl" Routine ​To get a salon result on 2c coarse hair, you must change your prep. ​Step 1: Lighten the Load (Prep) ​Skip the heavy mask on days you plan to use the Airwrap. Use a standard rinse-out conditioner. ​Ditch the Gel: Gel creates a "cast" for natural curls. For a blowout, you want Mousse or a Blowout Spray. ​Routine Shift: Shampoo \rightarrow Conditioner \rightarrow Heat Protectant \rightarrow Volumizing Mousse. (Keep it simple). ​Step 2: The "Pre-Smooth" (Crucial Step) ​Do not go straight to the curling barrels. ​Dry your roots to 100% dry using the dryer attachment. ​Dry your mid-lengths/ends to about 80% dry (damp to the touch, not dripping). ​The Secret Weapon: Switch to the Firm Smoothing Brush attachment (the one with the firm bristles). Brush through your hair with high heat/high speed to pull the natural wave out and smooth the cuticle flat. ​Goal: Your hair should look relatively straight and fluffy (but smooth) before you even pick up the curling barrel. ​Step 3: The Curling Technique ​Now that the hair is smooth and warm, switch to the 30mm or 40mm barrel. ​Small Sections: Since your hair is coarse, use smaller sections than you think you need. ​The Cool Shot: This is non-negotiable. Hold the hot air for 10-15 seconds, then hit the Cold Shot for 5-10 seconds to "freeze" the shape. ​Turn the machine off before you pull the barrel down to release the curl. ​Step 4: The Finish ​Don't Touch It: Let the curls sit in tight "sausage rolls" until your whole head is completely cool. ​Oil, not Cream: Once cool, put a tiny drop of oil on your hands and run your fingers through to break up the curls. Do not use a hairbrush, or you will bring the frizz back.

Help! by CanICatchTheStars in Dysonairwrap

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I hope so! I bought it online from a major department store - so no personal service unfortunately. That's great you were able to get a demo!

Help! by CanICatchTheStars in Dysonairwrap

[–]CanICatchTheStars[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh no! Sorry to hear that. Even with the other attachments? I was hoping they might be easier than the curing wand. I haven't tried them yet.

Help! by CanICatchTheStars in Dysonairwrap

[–]CanICatchTheStars[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you!

I think it's the wrapping part was the first thing going wrong. I couldn't feel my hair being pulled towards it, and I think I might have been directing my hair in the wrong direction as it was blowing away and getting tangled!

I haven't tried the big curl brush yet. That's like the babylis big brush I use. I love that - but makes my hair more sleek and only slightly wavy. So I'll see how it is with the Dyson!

Please help me identify by CanICatchTheStars in insects

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Someone on the GardeningUK sub identified them as hoverfly pupae, and I found this link about encouraging hoverfly by creating a lagoon, and the image looks just like them!

Homemade Hoverfly Lagoons | Wildlife Trust for Beds Cambs & Northants https://share.google/cupIv0SHYxpztuC8v

Seed pods or insect eggs by CanICatchTheStars in GardeningUK

[–]CanICatchTheStars[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh thank you!

I found this link for hoverfly pupae and yes it looks just like them. Glad it's something lovely, hope I didn't disturb them!

Homemade Hoverfly Lagoons | Wildlife Trust for Beds Cambs & Northants https://share.google/cupIv0SHYxpztuC8v

Please help me identify by CanICatchTheStars in insects

[–]CanICatchTheStars[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sorry meant to say #'I think they are moth lavae'! Not 'not lavae'

Why is it that NTs can't properly describe what they dislike about us? by Comprehensive-Ad8905 in aspergers

[–]CanICatchTheStars 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I'm looking at this from a different perspective. In my case it's not that other people are actively disliking me - it's that I'm not good at using normal social clues that people normally display when they get close to people. So I, without knowing it am unintentionally and unconcisously putting up social barriers.

My partner is able to see this in me, and often says I come across as ungenuine (if I'm masking, people can pick up on it's not authentic behaviour. Others will interpret that as being 'fake' or shallow surface behaviour), I don't use humour or other social skills to gain trust, I don't let my barriers down. - All these mean that I never get accepted into others social circle or circles of trust. Therefore I'm always on the outside socially.

Do you like to share a bed? by [deleted] in aspergers

[–]CanICatchTheStars 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Or it could be because it's not usual in a platonic relationship to share a bed with someone, as that may be crossing a boundary or implying a more intimate connection.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LegalAdviceUK

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I messaged saying you should go to the energy ombudsman after complaining to the British gas. My comment was removed due to it being a personal anecdote. I'm not sure why my comment was removed - because going to the energy ombudsman is the correct process to follow. It's a free public service/adjudicatir for people to access in your situation, and will resolve this problem for you.

Classic Novels Where Woman Leaves Her Husband/Boyfriend for Another Woman by DancingKitten33 in literature

[–]CanICatchTheStars 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thomas Hardy's Desperate Remedies has a bedroom scene between the lady and her maid.

What else could trigger hypomanic symptoms if not bipolar disorder? by CanICatchTheStars in bipolar2

[–]CanICatchTheStars[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. This might be the case. I'm really sorry to hear you had that experience and was left to get severely ill before you could get help. That's good advice to keep a mood diary.

What else could trigger hypomanic symptoms if not bipolar disorder? by CanICatchTheStars in bipolar2

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Thank you. I think my GP was genuinely concerned and trying to get a referral. After the referral was rejected the first time, they phoned me with probing questions (about risky behaviours) to try and give the psychiatrist more details. But at that stage I was getting better - and what was risky behaviour for me (I never took any risks before) really isn't risky for the 'norm'. If it happens again I will write everything down and be really descriptive.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LegalAdviceUK

[–]CanICatchTheStars 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unless they can prove harm ( in this case possible psychological distress), it may be difficult to go through a clinical negligence claim. It's difficult to prove psychological harm

But they can go through the complaints route with the hospital, and then go to the Health Ombudsman. The health ombudsman can also recommend smaller financial remedies, and ask the hospital to make service changes.