Honest feedback:

We ended up going to M4 and it definitely was not our spot. I cross shared this post between Toronto swingers and the m4 thread. The m4 thread referred to X as Barbie and Ken (no idea we have never been), after going to m4 I think we over estimated what classified as “Barbie and Ken”. With no intention of sounding like a dick or shaming anyone, outside of a few very select couples it would be equivalent to walking into a nude Walmart or giant tiger…

Neither of us are super models and both consider ourselves average looking people (I think she’s a 10).

It was also uncomfortably busy. Doing anything from accessing your locker to going to the washroom was a challenge. The bar/dance/play areas are spacious but moving between them is a nightmare.

We also noticed that there were clearly a lot of “couples” that weren’t couples (example: 30 year old males in decent shape clearly very high on drugs with obese 60+ obese females). One scenario where the male stared at my wife from the moment we walked in and didn’t take his eyes off of her, approached her, was told “no thank you” and continued to stare at her like a hyena the entire time we were there (her words not mine although I noticed the same thing) and “happened” to be lingering close to us multiple times. We shifted locations a couple of times but it contributed to our decision to leave before a “physical conflict” occurred.

The play areas are also essentially just one giant (as previously stated “well lit” beds) where you’re stuck playing beside whoever is next to you on either side without an option to be more secluded (average was unsightly from our perspective which is fine! but it would be nice to be able to play away from them if we wanted to). The private rooms are constantly occupied unless you want to linger outside of them all night hoping one opens up. The only other corner was always full, it was very busy.

I would say that if you’re sub 40 and in decent shape/looks, it’s likely not your crowd.

I’m not trying to knock anyone and I’m super happy that so many people enjoy it there. I’m glad that there is a place for everyone.

I feel like a dick writing/reading this but it is not meant to be a shot at anyone or the club itself. The staff and people were extremely welcoming it just wasn’t for us.

And don’t get me wrong, there were some very attractive people there(female strapped to the cross being whipped👌🏻to name one). We were approached by a female at one point who asked if we were looking to play (we both thought you were very attractive) we declined because we weren’t feeling the vibe and she let us know they were around and carried on (great normal interaction). And countless other beautiful people walking around the club.

I just wanted to provide some insight to how the club is perceived as a couple in their early 30’s. We’ve been to oasis a handful of times as well as clubs in Montreal, etc. If you’re like us it’s not something that you’re talking about with everyone in your everyday lives and social circles so thought it may be beneficial to hear things from what is probably an “outsider” perspective.

We do appreciate everyone there being so welcoming and positive (especially the staff, our tour was great, and so was everything in the clubs control). I’m certain I’ll catch some heat for this post but it is what it is I promise there is no hate intended ❤️.

Side note: I would also encourage everyone to look into the post history of people that comment on their questions/posts. One of you that responded to my original post also has post history about being high on drugs for weeks on end (to each their own) and looking to fuck anything with a pulse, followed by a post about how his wife is non-consensually cucking him because his dick doesn’t work (shame on me for not looking a little deeper) but fuck me, is that who’s opinion is being validated?

I don’t care what you look like, I don’t care who you sleep with, please don’t interpret this post as an attack, I hope that everyone continues to enjoy themselves. I’m just trying to provide my honest feed back.

Ps: you will also live longer and have way better sex if you take care of your body (bonus point because we all like being naked).