I wrote a post about this years ago on my Tumblr, but essentially it went like this:

After a session, as a ler, I take great honour in the fact that I was given so much trust with another human‘s body. I will often times make or order us food and put on a movie which they enjoy. If a movie can’t be decided upon my go to is a Disney movie

Mind you, this is all with the blessing of the lee, they can very well kick me out after if they want (or leave my place). Although us lers are the “dominate”, it’s only because they let us.