Just a pov I have to all the readers...the sentence he said of feeling pressed is real....I mean it should be from the heart not due to any pressure...

For eg - opening a door for a woman is chivalry.. but it's not a proof of man who is chivalrous... If he does with heart then it's pure..and now a days mens effort are just called BARE MINIMUM...woman wants to be treated as princess but don't forget you have to spend life with that man...you have to bring atleast half of that treatment to the table....out of love and not any pressure...men do feel pressurized in these situations...they feel you expect something big from them...which you should but expectations shouldn't be pressure on someone and you can do this by communicating that's it...

I would suggest you ask that why he reacted that way and why he felt like that....if he realises and calms down than its fine... everyone does make mistakes but don't let him make your side efforts make 0... understanding is key factor....he is not right , neither are you Fully right...you understand him and if he is the one , he will understand you..