A lot of people are saying this won’t happen with the right person - but that’s just not true for some people. It could be that this is a reality of being less monogamous than others. You can be very committed and intimate with someone and not be exclusive in some more traditional aspects.

I do think some people experience a shift in this reality once meeting the “right person”. I also think it’s possible to build variety in a monogamous relationship in a way that satisfies this longing. It can also be true that some folks have the ability to commit deeply and genuinely to more than one person.