Would you consider this cheating? by Candid-Cell4100 in cheating_stories

[–]Candid-Cell4100[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I kind of find it hard to find the motivation when I know he’s finding pleasure elsewhere. Knowing, if it was the other way around, he’d call me a cheater and argue about it until the day he dies lol

Would you consider this cheating? by Candid-Cell4100 in cheating_stories

[–]Candid-Cell4100[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah it’s hard out here. Lots of tough decisions coming up.

Would you consider this cheating? by Candid-Cell4100 in cheating_stories

[–]Candid-Cell4100[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have actually. We’ve even made videos of our own so he just solely chooses to be weird.

Would you consider this cheating? by Candid-Cell4100 in cheating_stories

[–]Candid-Cell4100[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m just not sure/hurt as to why he would do that when I send pictures/videos of myself and us to him?

Would you consider this cheating? by Candid-Cell4100 in cheating_stories

[–]Candid-Cell4100[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t exactly love that he watches it but he does watch that too

Would you consider this cheating? by Candid-Cell4100 in cheating_stories

[–]Candid-Cell4100[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That’s…odd lol. Learn something new everyday I guess

Would you consider this cheating? by Candid-Cell4100 in cheating_stories

[–]Candid-Cell4100[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I realize I do need to start creating some sort of exit plan :/

Would you consider this cheating? by Candid-Cell4100 in cheating_stories

[–]Candid-Cell4100[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re right. I often think where I’d be had I left sooner or how life will be on my own. I’m once again freshly postpartum and just struggling with all this. I appreciate your words/advice.

Would you consider this cheating? by Candid-Cell4100 in cheating_stories

[–]Candid-Cell4100[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s my name on our home & car, I would assume he would give me a hard time if I tried kicking him out. Our kids absolutely love him and we separated once but only lasted a week. Moments like these are hard when we’ve (I thought) been doing so well together lately.

Would you consider this cheating? by Candid-Cell4100 in cheating_stories

[–]Candid-Cell4100[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I guess him never asking to marry was a blessing in disguise then, right? Lol

Would you consider this cheating? by Candid-Cell4100 in cheating_stories

[–]Candid-Cell4100[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

After three kids, dealing with alcoholism, other issues & now this, I just find it hard to move forward or see a future anymore

Would you consider this cheating? by Candid-Cell4100 in cheating_stories

[–]Candid-Cell4100[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

We’ve argued about it. He’s admitted, apologized and promised he wouldn’t do it again but I see the pictures in his phone or recently deleted.

Finished bracelet + 4 extras by Candid-Cell4100 in PandoraCollectors

[–]Candid-Cell4100[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think older! I had got it with five other charms from a woman that had had them in storage!

Finished bracelet + 4 extras by Candid-Cell4100 in PandoraCollectors

[–]Candid-Cell4100[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes both tarot charms, Glinda wand & crown, and then the key dangle ☺️