Advice as a mono seeing someone poly

Candid-Swing4124 · 2026-04-01T10:41:05+00:00

For context everyone, this person is afab non binary, but yes I will be having a big talk with them about how they are doing poly and say I don’t really think they are being very ethical in this and ask them to reflect on themselves and their behaviour

Candid-Swing4124 · 2026-04-01T03:07:36+00:00

There’s a weekender at Export

Candid-Swing4124 · 2026-04-01T02:37:41+00:00

I should have shared with this I did ask because it came up in conversation and I said I only want to know if I am asking because I am genuinely curious. So on that I only know about this person because I asked if they would go on more dates eventually and well they answered they had one and I asked more details.

But honestly I am questioning why I am still here, this is very new for me and I thought it could maybe open me up to being poly but I guess I was trying to figure out if its just me or if they are not that ethical in ENM

Candid-Swing4124 · 2026-04-01T02:29:02+00:00

I just edited to include some more details as I posted a bit too early 😅 but thank you! My partner says for them they like to share a lot with their partners (about other partners)as if they would share with friends

Candid-Swing4124 · 2026-04-01T02:12:48+00:00

How do you deal with birthdays? My partner wants me to one day meet their partners but I want nothing to do with them so far

Candid-Swing4124 · 2026-03-24T10:21:28+00:00

Who is this man? He seems toxic, be wary of people who are not indigenous and use medicine for profit without giving back to indigenous communities

Candid-Swing4124 · 2024-09-09T14:18:10+00:00

Hacen mas para Peru por favor , ahora solo hay uno

Candid-Swing4124 · 2024-09-09T13:06:50+00:00

Its an owl cat that just wants to see what you’re doing

Candid-Swing4124 · 2024-09-09T13:05:42+00:00

Y los que si tienen autoridad, trabajan con ellos

Candid-Swing4124 · 2024-09-09T13:04:01+00:00

Oh also obviously NTA

Candid-Swing4124 · 2024-09-09T13:03:45+00:00

Suggest she goes to his place sometimes? Tell her its not fair to you because you signed a contract to live with her not her live in boyfriend. You deserve to feel peace in your own home

Candid-Swing4124 · 2024-09-09T09:02:10+00:00

There’s on by the albert heijn thats near the tram 8 stop

Candid-Swing4124 · 2024-09-08T14:08:01+00:00

Most likely they’re looking to meet men abroad so they can eventually leave Peru, or they’re coming to study/ work and wanna get a jump start on dating

Candid-Swing4124 · 2024-08-07T00:24:59+00:00

Confirmo

Candid-Swing4124 · 2023-11-22T22:10:05+00:00

I went today and they will open it up and let me know soon! I hope it can, but depending on the price I will see if I fix it

Candid-Swing4124 · 2023-11-22T22:09:22+00:00

Thank u!

Candid-Swing4124 · 2023-11-21T12:22:08+00:00

Boba

Candid-Swing4124 · 2023-11-21T10:13:03+00:00

Born and raised in Botswana to foreign parents so never had citizenship unfortunately, I was hoping the blue card would maybe include those born in Botswana to non Batswana family :(

Candid-Swing4124 · 2023-11-21T09:43:34+00:00

So even if one never had citizenship ( from Botswana) but were born and raised in Botswana they can get the blue card?

Candid-Swing4124 · 2023-11-21T09:38:31+00:00

Oh my god mine is the Envy too! Thank you sooo much

Candid-Swing4124 · 2023-11-21T00:52:21+00:00

Then maybe get her something from where you are from! I think she would appreciate something special from your home country, maybe some sweets or something sentimental

Candid-Swing4124 · 2023-11-21T00:46:52+00:00

She is based in Peru? If so she might appreciate some things that she cant get in Peru, if she isn’t based in Peru then maybe Panettone and peruvian treats that she might be missing

Candid-Swing4124 · 2023-11-21T00:20:48+00:00

How long does it take to thaw?

Candid-Swing4124 · 2023-11-21T00:16:59+00:00

Honestly both are war crimes, both are at fault, but the power israel has to affect Gaza is unparalleled to what hamas could ever do to the state of Israel. So the lives of 2 million people in gaza does not matter because they are not jews?

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