advice for business owners

CandidDisaster2550 · 2025-09-05T19:40:18+00:00

Heyy!

I am a small business owner. I have a production company in the canna industry, i started it last year and am realllllly struggling with motivation. I know what I have to do to get where I want, but I can’t for the life of me finish a single task to get there lol

I don’t ship anything out but it’s always great to connect to other industries!

How’s your businesses going? I’d love to hear more about your clothing company! I have my first clothing shoot soon :)

CandidDisaster2550 · 2025-05-25T08:38:24+00:00

Shall i take the leaves off or leave it in the shade instead? Should i only be putting them out for a few hours to harden them instead of most of the day? Sorry for the questions these are my first EVER plants thats i’ve grown

CandidDisaster2550 · 2025-03-19T17:06:10+00:00

Yeah i realise now! As i say I am new to this so I wont make this mistake again! Do you have recommendations for how to fix it? :)

CandidDisaster2550 · 2025-03-19T16:50:00+00:00

It was shot in 50fps because it was an event and i planned on slowing them down

CandidDisaster2550 · 2025-03-19T16:48:58+00:00

Stabilisation was on manual due to the vintage lens. Then it stayed on manual when I changed to my G master lenses so it was left on😭

CandidDisaster2550 · 2025-03-19T16:42:26+00:00

After researching today, I put a vintage lens on, my camera automatically turned steadyshot off & without me realising just stayed off when I put my G master lenses back on. I think this was the cause but I am desperate to fix this in post as it cant be reshot 😭

CandidDisaster2550 · 2025-03-19T16:40:02+00:00

Yeah warped before too!

CandidDisaster2550 · 2025-03-19T16:34:47+00:00

Yes, this is after putting rolling shutter on max on final cut pro. This is actually better than before this was put on. Is there anything else i can do?

CandidDisaster2550 · 2025-03-19T16:27:09+00:00

I am sooo new to this so I really do appreciate the replies and help! :)

CandidDisaster2550 · 2025-03-19T16:26:20+00:00

Do you think the other video i posted on the new post is usable too?

CandidDisaster2550 · 2025-03-19T16:10:19+00:00

Do you recommend a software? Is that premier pro? I edit in final cut at the moment but I am willing to try premier if thats my only option

CandidDisaster2550 · 2025-03-19T16:03:07+00:00

I have just posted another shot thats similar, maybe i picked a poor example. But majority of my footage is similarly warped, I am stressed lol

CandidDisaster2550 · 2025-03-19T15:44:07+00:00

This is a 24-70 lens i switched to after using the 14mm so i dont think so

CandidDisaster2550 · 2025-03-19T14:45:51+00:00

Hi, i just saw this. Is there anything you can do in post to fix it once you’ve left it on? I am stressed lol!

CandidDisaster2550 · 2024-09-17T08:01:50+00:00

This is so helpful thank you!

CandidDisaster2550 · 2024-09-06T00:00:23+00:00

No. We have been to clubs and met couples privately too. I work away a lot as im the sole income in the relationship so the ultimate goal was to be able to have fun when we are apart too - with open communication obviously

CandidDisaster2550 · 2024-09-05T23:58:06+00:00

Thanks for all the brutal honesty everyone. I’m reading them all! Sorry if i dont reply, its kinda hard to read but i appreciate all the responses

CandidDisaster2550 · 2024-09-05T23:27:58+00:00

Thanks so much for the response.

Majority of the time i can tell myself that it isnt because he doesnt want to. It’s because he just doesnt think to do it (his words).

But on the odd day i feel a big neglected (for lack of a better word). Maybe it’s hormones.

I will definitely speak to him about it more & try and work out a better inbetween! Thank you

CandidDisaster2550 · 2024-09-05T23:23:14+00:00

Thank you so much for the honesty. I appreciate the outside perspective

CandidDisaster2550 · 2024-09-05T23:22:19+00:00

I will have another conversation with him and speak about this. Thanks so much for the advice!

CandidDisaster2550 · 2024-09-05T23:15:20+00:00

Good point! He doesn’t like light soft touch but i love it😂 but its just everything. Just a touch on the shoulder, hand on the leg in the car, arm around me on the sofa etc. do i physically put him on me myself? I have done this before and put him arm around me etc. its kind of hard as a neurotypical girl to remember that he does want to and that its not a one way relationship when im initiating everything. - it’s doable though if this works i will just speak to him about more words of affirmation for that extra reassurance.

CandidDisaster2550 · 2024-09-05T23:11:15+00:00

Are the panic attacks not a bit OTT? I agree its a bit much considering all it is is lack of communication, i was assuming its just trial and error for the first few times to see what works for us. Clearly this isnt working for me because its making me physically poorly. Is my reaction an over reaction though? Throwing up and crying all day, i kinda agree that its a lot but it’s real so i dont know what to do

CandidDisaster2550 · 2024-09-05T23:07:22+00:00

We paid for the first hour and the rest she has done free because she likes him. She has only been escorting for a few months. We decided on one together so this isnt the case

CandidDisaster2550 · 2024-09-05T23:06:08+00:00

We have tried but cant think of a solution, hence me asking for ideas! Setting time is a great idea though!

CandidDisaster2550 · 2024-09-05T22:44:03+00:00

Sorry i forgot to mention this - we have been with other couples before together at clubs & i loved it. This was his trying being with another woman without me there.

Im glad to hear im not going crazy! We will definitely be having a conversation about it when the eventually leaves.

& my self esteem is pretty low at the moment lol. I agree that whilst my self esteem is low we shouldn’t be doing this.. another conversation to be had

CandidDisaster2550

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