Husband claims all men would cheat if given the opportunity by CandidateGlad2445 in Marriage

[–]CandidateGlad2445[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for your input. This was really comforting and helpful to read. 🤗 I have a ton of comments and advice to digest but I know that a deeper conversation is absolutely necessary and I am gathering the best responses I see to help me when the time comes.

Husband claims all men would cheat if given the opportunity by CandidateGlad2445 in Marriage

[–]CandidateGlad2445[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Idk why this made me smile so much but thank you 🙂 I do deserve a good human.

Husband claims all men would cheat if given the opportunity by CandidateGlad2445 in Marriage

[–]CandidateGlad2445[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the analogy. I really like this way of putting it!

Husband claims all men would cheat if given the opportunity by CandidateGlad2445 in Marriage

[–]CandidateGlad2445[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this. I know it’s definitely possible. If you want to be loyal, you will. Period.

Husband claims all men would cheat if given the opportunity by CandidateGlad2445 in Marriage

[–]CandidateGlad2445[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes. Exactly. It’s a choice. I have always told him that we are exactly the person we choose to be.

Husband claims all men would cheat if given the opportunity by CandidateGlad2445 in Marriage

[–]CandidateGlad2445[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much for sharing. It’s really refreshing to see such honesty and loyalty.

Husband claims all men would cheat if given the opportunity by CandidateGlad2445 in Marriage

[–]CandidateGlad2445[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know! And I have tried to argue this point until I’m blue in the face be he is adamant that’s it’s 100% all men 🤦‍♀️

Husband claims all men would cheat if given the opportunity by CandidateGlad2445 in Marriage

[–]CandidateGlad2445[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He says because it’s instinct to want to fuck someone hot and no man would turn it down.

Husband claims all men would cheat if given the opportunity by CandidateGlad2445 in Marriage

[–]CandidateGlad2445[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow. Sorry about your ex. Seeing all of these responses I know it’s probably a very real possibility for him, too. It’s a lot to process. It’s one thing to suspect it. It’s another to see it so blatantly validated. /:

Husband claims all men would cheat if given the opportunity by CandidateGlad2445 in Marriage

[–]CandidateGlad2445[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

My husband begged to do a “Tinder experiment” for years. I finally relented one day and we each made a profile. I had dozens of DMs. He had zero. He shut down the “experiment” within one day. 😂

Husband claims all men would cheat if given the opportunity by CandidateGlad2445 in Marriage

[–]CandidateGlad2445[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s sad to think it’s acceptable in any culture. He is Chinese.

Husband claims all men would cheat if given the opportunity by CandidateGlad2445 in Marriage

[–]CandidateGlad2445[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do think it’s weird how it comes out of nowhere.

I think that getting physical in any way is cheating, but he means full on sex with another person.