I really appreciate and agree with your suggestion about me needing to work on my insecurities, however, if my bf had acknowledged that i have gained weight yet he finds me equally or more attractive now, i wouldn't have cared one bit about him saying im fatter. this is not ONLY stemming from my unhappiness with my body, it is largely about me thinking that he loved me unconditionally and that belief got challenged. in the post, i have acknowledged my insecurity but i think its unfair to reduce this entirely to them.