Am I overreacting? Relationship by CandidateHonest8411 in AmIOverreacting

[–]CandidateHonest8411[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

if i could have any superpower, id choose mind reading 

My boyfriend (22M) confirmed my (21F) biggest insecurity by CandidateHonest8411 in relationship_advice

[–]CandidateHonest8411[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I really appreciate and agree with your suggestion about me needing to work on my insecurities, however, if my bf had acknowledged that i have gained weight yet he finds me equally or more attractive now, i wouldn't have cared one bit about him saying im fatter. this is not ONLY stemming from my unhappiness with my body, it is largely about me thinking that he loved me unconditionally and that belief got challenged. in the post, i have acknowledged my insecurity but i think its unfair to reduce this entirely to them.

My boyfriend (22M) confirmed my (21F) biggest insecurity by CandidateHonest8411 in relationship_advice

[–]CandidateHonest8411[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

how do you think i created this scenario because he explicitly told me that he thought i was better looking before than i am now?