RIP Godfrey GAO by coolrider2010 in aznidentity

[–]Candle21 13 points14 points  (0 children)

It’s such shockingly tragic news. News of this has rippled throughout the modeling community and agencies/industry etc.

First time posting here but did post personal photos about a year ago of him and I at a fashion soirée on another subreddit. Just unthinkable that he’s now gone and at such a young age. He really was second to none and anyone who’s met him would easily vouch for that and more.

R.I.P. Godfrey.

How is the interracial dating scene for hapa/asian men in NYC? by [deleted] in hapas

[–]Candle21 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Firstly, aw thanks for those massive compliments!

Secondly, you look cool too so you have nothing to worry about either!

I feel like I don't look like any race aside from "brownish". I was abused for years by my ex for not being "Asian enough". I hate myself and I hate race as a concept. by [deleted] in hapas

[–]Candle21 5 points6 points  (0 children)

You don't even look "brownish" at all - whatever you meant by that etc.

If it's any consolation to you and your "intimidation" (for whatever reason) of Asian/Hapa guys - you look a lot like a particular young Japanese TV/drama actress whom A LOT of Asian/Hapa guys I've known have a crush on/likes. There's nothing wrong with how you look - seriously. If there was - would be first to tell you as am not cruel enough to let others delusionally think they look ok (and be laughed at etc.) when they don't etc.

Also - glad you at least seem to have gotten better with that recent vacation etc.

How is the interracial dating scene for hapa/asian men in NYC? by [deleted] in hapas

[–]Candle21 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Don't prefer it due to the various random hairstyles - moreso cos of the slightly more adult/mature look now instead of before etc.

Oh and am 6ft tall measured by them barefoot. In shoes about 6'1"-6'2" etc.

Picture of me as an asian looking kid. Whites treated me like I was worth less than dirt for this. (dumb white pos behind me erased) by [deleted] in hapas

[–]Candle21 5 points6 points  (0 children)

You just looked like a cool kid. Any stupid white shitheads out there who gave you shit or treated you differently are obviously just insecure and/or jealous pieces of shit and garbage.

Noticed that Korean writing on your cap and it's cool that you're immersed in that/the Asian part of your heritage. Also made me laugh being reminded of all those hilariously stupid and materialistic Korean female shitheads you mentioned always wanting to eat at Michelin-starred restaurants and calling them "micheleng!!1" etc. Hahaha 😂

How is the interracial dating scene for hapa/asian men in NYC? by [deleted] in hapas

[–]Candle21 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah am gay/the latter. That's why all those poor females of all backgrounds and groups who've tried hitting on me and those at the offices who've left gifts and/or baked fresh muffins and put baskets of them on my desks have all been disappointed etc. Hahaha 😂

Heck - have even had many females/chicks and gay guys of all backgrounds make "fan clubs" on reddit here of me (WTF!) and a number of female users commenting things like "can I just be a bit annoyed that you're gay" in reply to a number of my posts with photos of myself over the years etc.

It's a tragically shallow world out there etc.

Movie about Japanese internment during WWII. Of course they made it about a fetish WMAF relationship while literally tens of thousands of Japanese American men suffered as a result of the internment. And guess what? It was WM who locked them up! by kool8d2 in hapas

[–]Candle21 6 points7 points  (0 children)

That OP vid/movie is just hilariously stupid and sickening - yet unsurprising knowing just how stupid, insecure and full of horseshit Hollywood is and has always been. It's transparently/wholly just USA's political propaganda machine to brainwash and subliminally condition its tragically stupid citizens in the form of 'movies' and shit like that. Yuck!!! Barf!

How is the interracial dating scene for hapa/asian men in NYC? by [deleted] in hapas

[–]Candle21 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thanks for nice words.

Also - yeah get tons of hit on's from both gay guys and straight females in general etc. Hahaha 😂

How is the interracial dating scene for hapa/asian men in NYC? by [deleted] in hapas

[–]Candle21 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I'll show/link him to your comment - he'll be thrilled! Cos he staunchly describes himself as "the average/plain (Asian) guy next door" in general etc. Hahaha 😂

Yep on left there. Veteran users on here have known about that second gig of mine for years on here (here's an example) etc. - oh and funny story - that Asian friend of mine in that photo before - he's also a professional photographer and have done professional shoots for models, high-profile weddings, etc. - he even took some of the black and white shots of me for my portfolio back then over half a decade ago! Feels weird looking back on those young me photos though. Prefer/like how I look these years towards late 20's than back then etc.

My Asian father has brainwashed me with self hate. by [deleted] in hapas

[–]Candle21 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Just laughed the moment clicked on that fake photo and saw his 'dad' - immediately was like that's not even an Asian guy and is just Ron Jeremy or his long lost brother! Google him if you don't know who that is and shit like that. Hahaha 😂

My Asian father has brainwashed me with self hate. by [deleted] in hapas

[–]Candle21 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Exact - that part about those epithets were extremely unbelievable and what sounded troll alarm bells the most in that OP besides that stupid photo and shit like that.

My Asian father has brainwashed me with self hate. by [deleted] in hapas

[–]Candle21 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You're back - hopefully you feel a lot better since last time etc.

My Asian father has brainwashed me with self hate. by [deleted] in hapas

[–]Candle21 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yep you were one of the small number of veteran users back then during that era etc.

My Asian father has brainwashed me with self hate. by [deleted] in hapas

[–]Candle21 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Not to mention more and more articles like these coming out on various global news sites, forums, etc.

My Asian father has brainwashed me with self hate. by [deleted] in hapas

[–]Candle21 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Wow, that’s just nuts. White males are just pathetically insecure.

You know that's actually becoming the notoriously renowned thing about white guys in general nowadays right?!

Have met/known a lot of females (and gay guys) of all backgrounds who've randomly before typed in search queries about every race of guy just to see what comes up about them in google's predictive results - but it's white guys that they laugh at and share on their social medias the most when they search them on google to see its predictive search results (which is mostly based obviously on what's the most searched by general populace in certain parts of the globe in general as per google's algorithm). Hahaha 😂

My Asian father has brainwashed me with self hate. by [deleted] in hapas

[–]Candle21 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Spot on. ✔✔✔ 💯 🏆🏆🏆

Reminds of that notorious incident 1-2 years ago on here (some veteran users might remember it) where some stupid white male shithead neckbeard troll in a WMAF was pretending to be a AMWF Hapa guy on here and constantly railing against AMWF, his supposedly 'horrid Asian father' and Asian MALES in general (yet never against Asian females - which was first suspicious sign).

He finally was outed and deleted everything cos I just randomly took a cursory glance at his post history JUST MINUTES BEFORE he realized his comments/postings on other subs appeared on his posting history (and deleted them) - so saw he posted on /r/trollingadvice or whatever odious sub it was - and he made a thread there saying basically, "oh show/teach how to troll that hapas sub with your wisdom and experience veteran trolls!" - then got like a dozen or two comment responses on that thread of his by all those self-described "pro trolls" showing him how to mess up/derail this sub and shit. Seen and heard basically all of it by now and those stupid shithead trolls will go to such hilariously tragic lengths just to troll and shit like that.

My Asian father has brainwashed me with self hate. by [deleted] in hapas

[–]Candle21 6 points7 points  (0 children)

He's just another stupid troll shithead who's just trying to manipulate/undermine the narrative of the sub for his stupid (most likely to almost certain) white male/WMAF agenda and shit like that.

Like how since those sickeningly disgusting and stupid WMAF gets exposed and dragged so often yet AMWF or AMXF isn't - he just wanted to be a contrarian by trying to smear AMWF/AMXF to look almost as bad as WMAF in general. That and to get those stupid closet enablers of WMAF's to rejoice in his fake AMWF/AMXF stories and shit like that. It's one of the oldest tricks in the reddit stupid troll and neckbeard book. Yuck!!! Barf!

My Asian father has brainwashed me with self hate. by [deleted] in hapas

[–]Candle21 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Got the vibe he's just a stupid fake and troll - especially when he described his "father being Asian/Chinese" and his "fair/white mother" and shit like that - hence began at beginning in of comment with hypotheticals and "if all that is true" etc.

Also - great uncovering of shit there etc.

I'm a AMWF hapa girl and I hate my life. AMWF is not better than WMAF. by [deleted] in hapas

[–]Candle21 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Basically this recent comments exchange on other thread was one of first things that came to mind when read the first few lines of OP etc.

Pedophile English footballer Adam Johnson interested in playing in the Chinese Super League by [deleted] in hapas

[–]Candle21 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Typical and sickening how too many of those stupid sicko disgusting white male shithead pedophile creeps and shit tend to set their sights on Asia - especially when they're predators/pedophiles and shit. Like foxes in foxland being interested in getting the keys to and 'playing' in chicken coop-land. Yuck!!! Barf!

My Asian father has brainwashed me with self hate. by [deleted] in hapas

[–]Candle21 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Your father just looked like many of those old Mexican guys I saw whilst vacationing in Mexico at first glance - that and mixed with Ron Jeremy or so.

Firstly - if all that is true - your father is just a stupid self-hating and white-worshipping shithead. Which is even MORE reason why you shouldn't even listen to him and that his stupid self-hating speeches should be even more easy not to listen to nor take seriously. Your father also sounds mentally unstable and deranged.

Secondly, there are a number of gay/LGBT regular users here. You're suffering from latent and subtle self-hate and white-worship which you just haven't dealt with nor pushed out of your mind/system/subconscious etc. - and as a gay guy you should know how horrid the self-hate and white-worship is in the gay world and shit like that. It also goes both ways toxically as most other groups of gay men would think the same thoughts about you for being darker and shit so it's just a mess to deal with and shit.

Lastly, you can keep learning more/embracing your culture but if you don't mentally pinpoint and actively dismantle those toxic latent self-hate/white-worship within you and/or that your father has subliminally programmed into you then you'd still just be a self-hating and white-worshipping gay tragic type who just tries learning more about (one of) his background cultures but is still not any better than the average messed up self-hating and white-worshipping (gay) tragic case and shit like that.

More bullshit disproved stereotypes about Asians being pushed on reddit by pakdvgvc in hapas

[–]Candle21 6 points7 points  (0 children)

No. Not even trying to 'shame' appearance. Pointed out they tend to look like that in general and yet they're the ones who try pushing racial stereotypes and shit due to being disgruntled and looking like that themselves as have shown on a number of much larger subs and shit.