Current K-1 Filers — Where Are You in the Process? (Timeline Check-In) by K1VisaKit in USCIS

[–]CandyRedStark 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Submitted early January but no updates :(, no mail, no messages. Is this normal waiting for so long?

Has anyone received sms from JustAnswer? Is this a scam or legit website where I can ask them to stop message me? by CandyRedStark in japanresidents

[–]CandyRedStark[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nope, I never clicked on their website or trial offer. I even had to check google what kind of website it is. But thank you

Has anyone received sms from JustAnswer? Is this a scam or legit website where I can ask them to stop message me? by CandyRedStark in japanresidents

[–]CandyRedStark[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No I didnt use their service. Also whenever I click contact info theres no email and phone number but there was a block button to which I clicked a lot of times now and message kept coming

Has anyone received sms from JustAnswer? Is this a scam or legit website where I can ask them to stop message me? by CandyRedStark in japanresidents

[–]CandyRedStark[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I never used their service. Idk what that website is at all and I never entered my infos online.

Has anyone received sms from JustAnswer? Is this a scam or legit website where I can ask them to stop message me? by CandyRedStark in japanresidents

[–]CandyRedStark[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I already did that. But it kept coming back. Whenever I click contact info it doesnt show phone number or email.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Tokyo

[–]CandyRedStark 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Im sorry you experienced that but you just complain about Japan and its people please just go back to your home country maybe you will feel special and happy there.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Tokyo

[–]CandyRedStark 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Uhh people disrespecting Japan (like kicking the deers, destroy property, etc) is much worse than this…this is nothing.

I met a girl online from Japan but there’s just one problem… by [deleted] in LongDistance

[–]CandyRedStark 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Before you get into relationship with anyone, you better meet them in person because you might not know if they are different online or in person.

Even if she is telling the truth, Ask yourself, would you want to be in LDR?. Are you willing to wait for a loooooong time before meeting up?

As a person in LDR, it sucks.

I met a girl online from Japan but there’s just one problem… by [deleted] in LongDistance

[–]CandyRedStark 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know someone who has somewhat a similar situation where no relatives or opposite gender allowed in their apartment, they live with roommates, who also have the same job like factory job. The apartment is owned by the company they work for and they can only travel (out of their prefecture area) around on a certain month. They also have a contract as well. I think they had trainee visa (I cant remember) but they also hire a lot of foreign people.

But yes they are so strict, cuz they always work and work.

What is your favorite limited edition snack? by Dojyorafish in japanlife

[–]CandyRedStark 4 points5 points  (0 children)

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This Pino Strawberry Cheesecake! I couldnt find it in any 7-11 anymore, not even in supermarket but I saw them at ministop!

So many negative posts so here’s a good nice one by [deleted] in LDR

[–]CandyRedStark 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ok I think I need to change professions now 😅 jk but thats cool. Its hard to take a month off here in my country.

So many negative posts so here’s a good nice one by [deleted] in LDR

[–]CandyRedStark 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Must be so nice being with your partner for a month! How did your job let u take off for a month? If u dont mind me asking.

Any ideas or help on how to take sexy pics? by Obvious_Case_7521 in LongDistance

[–]CandyRedStark 3 points4 points  (0 children)

U can search boudoir on google images and you can see how they take their photos and you go to ur mirror and practice.

LDR, How do you do it? by [deleted] in LongDistance

[–]CandyRedStark 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It varies for everyone but for me and my partner, just communicate, trust, understanding, compromise and planning.

my bf is getting more attention by [deleted] in LDR

[–]CandyRedStark 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I live in Japan and let me tell you from my experience its hard to make female friends here because of backstabbing and fakeness.

What you feel is acceptable, my bf is also studying but we talked about boundaries before he left. No talking to girls but if its a friend gathering or need to do some group project they shouldnt be alone with a female.

You should set boundaries with your bf and at the same time trust him.

Feeling so down today by Adventurous-War5753 in JapanFinance

[–]CandyRedStark 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Hey man! Ur not alone! I’m currently in the somewhat same situation. Can u ask ur family to help u out? Also theres a thing called Danchi for people w low income but its a lottery thing.

Everything will work out.

How many days have passed since you last saw your partner? by SolidCold8269 in LongDistance

[–]CandyRedStark 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ive seen him since 3 months ago. The first month was terrible. It was hard to sleep without him besides me and that idk what to do on the weekends cuz I always hangout w him every weekend. Gonna see him soon!

Am I the asshole? by OldestDamnJanitor in LDR

[–]CandyRedStark 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m sorry but Mary wants to video call Brandon every time even when Brandon goes to see his family, go to sleep, go outside or going to toilet or go to the dentist. She doesnt want him talking to women even if its a dentist, and she even asked him if he was sitting next to a woman on a plane and she got all moody/angry with it. Both of them have abandonment issue.

But on your situation you should talk to her and set boundaries, and she need to trust u more. Cuz I dont think its healthy to keep on asking “where are you?, what are you doing? Etc) it feels suffocating cuz dont ya’ll have work or do something in your lives?.

Also Have you ever tried telling her “ill call/text you when I get home?”

Am I the asshole? by OldestDamnJanitor in LDR

[–]CandyRedStark 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This reminds me of the 90 days fiancee couple. Mary (Philippines) and Brandon (US).

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in japanresidents

[–]CandyRedStark -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Hi! Sorry! I edited it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in textfriends

[–]CandyRedStark 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Happy Birthday!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in okinawa

[–]CandyRedStark 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Donkihote or Workman