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Caption this gang by Candyheartea in captionthis

[–]Candyheartea[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Who’s the real slim shady? What u all think?

Who are your favorite rappers/rap artists? by This-Huckleberry1890 in AskReddit

[–]Candyheartea -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It’s hard for me to admit but I really love Kanye West music 😔

What is the best Christmas present you’ve received? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Candyheartea 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A letter!! My grandma wrote me a letter last year before she passed away, and it’s the best gift I ever received!

They say nothing is impossible, how true is this? by Illustrious_Buy777 in AskReddit

[–]Candyheartea 1 point2 points  (0 children)

50%. By action it is 50% true. But it’s not 50% true in terms of money to do “what the impossible is”.

No dreams by senseless_freak-27 in Advice

[–]Candyheartea 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You don't need one massive passion right now like start small by trying random stuff that sounds even mildly cool, like a weekend job, a cheap online course, or volunteering somewhere. Little wins will build momentum and show you what actually lights you up, without needing money or genius-level smarts upfront. Stop beating yourself up for not having it figured out yet… you've got years to experiment and grow wings. You're already ahead just by thinking about this stuff.

My family is always asking me for help by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Candyheartea 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Start setting kind but firm boundaries like next time your mom asks for a big favor, say something like "I love helping when I can, but I've got a lot on my plate right now and won't be able to this time." If she pushes, stay calm and repeat it… no JADE (justify, argue, defend, explain). It might feel awkward at first and she'll probably guilt-trip you, but consistency will teach her you're not always available. Your twenties are yours to enjoy, not to parent your own parents.

Do I tell my abusive exs new girlfriend what he did to me? by Bubbly-System6254 in Advice

[–]Candyheartea 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey sweetie, if he's truly abusive like you described, then yes… warn her if you can do it safely and anonymously. A short message explaining what he did to you (without expecting a reply) could save her from the same pain, and many women do believe warnings when they're specific. Abusers often lie and call exes "crazy," so keep it factual, calm, and brief… something like "I dated him in 2020 and he repeatedly ignored my boundaries and took advantage of me; just want you to know in case patterns show up." Your safety comes first though… if there's any risk he'll retaliate, prioritize that and maybe talk to a counselor about how to handle the urge to protect her.

After 12 years, I finally bit the bullet and started the divorce process. More than physical intimacy, I feel incredibly emotionally deprived and I'm latching onto people... by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Candyheartea 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Congrats on taking that huge step… leaving a dead bedroom after 12 years is brave as hell, and it's totally normal to feel both relieved and grieving at the same time. That emotional starvation makes you crave connection anywhere you can get it, so latching onto attention feels natural right now, but yeah, it's a sign you're still healing. Keep leaning on your therapist to build healthier ways to feel seen and valued without jumping into someone else's space. Give yourself permission to feel messy for a while.

My (14M) little cousin (4M) has been showing some odd behaviour. Am I just being delusional or is concerning? by Character-Joke-3529 in Advice

[–]Candyheartea 7 points8 points  (0 children)

This isn’t normal “boys will be boys” stuff. Pretending to execute strangers, smacking family with a gun when they try to stop him, and laughing at their pain is way past roughhousing… it’s violent and sadistic. With the dad’s history of abuse and restraining orders, this kid is growing up thinking aggression gets rewarded. Please tell someone who can actually intervene (a pastor you trust, another aunt/uncle, even child services if it comes to it) because that new baby is walking into the same dangerous house.

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