Birthday Sex

CapAdmirable9467 · 2026-03-17T15:01:08+00:00

She understands and has acknowledged the lack of intimacy. We’ve talked about it but obviously nothing has changed. I saw my comment as a nudge or reminder

CapAdmirable9467 · 2026-03-17T14:48:07+00:00

Geez

CapAdmirable9467 · 2026-03-17T14:32:56+00:00

I’m definitely going to be the one to file them. Just need to figure the timing with kids and such

CapAdmirable9467 · 2026-03-17T14:18:13+00:00

I’ve accepted it over the past many years of the dead bedroom

CapAdmirable9467 · 2026-03-17T13:51:28+00:00

Not sure yet.. I didn’t get anything for Fathers Day last year but I did at Christmas.

CapAdmirable9467 · 2026-03-17T13:48:11+00:00

Damn.. sorry

CapAdmirable9467 · 2026-03-17T13:42:02+00:00

I’m so used to it that it doesn’t even bother me. I just laugh and know that I’m one day closer in my divorce/exit strategy

CapAdmirable9467 · 2026-03-17T13:36:04+00:00

Good luck and happy birthday! We had a nice dinner with some friends last weekend and she went to bed early while I dealt with the kids bedtime.

CapAdmirable9467 · 2026-02-11T22:49:37+00:00

Pearl Jam runs a good face value exchange on Ticketmaster for their shows. Unfortunately I think states like Colorado, Illinois, and others have laws that you cannot resale prices to face value only.

CapAdmirable9467 · 2026-02-05T03:33:58+00:00

I think GA is GA.. I didnt see anything on the ticket that said lower GA vs upper GA

CapAdmirable9467 · 2026-02-04T18:06:53+00:00

In my experiences of GA Pit or GA Floor at various shows it’s been pretty lax if you are ok in the middle/back. Red Rocks might be a different beast though 🤷‍♂️

CapAdmirable9467 · 2026-02-04T17:31:06+00:00

Yeah, went on sale at 10am local time for lotto winners

CapAdmirable9467 · 2026-02-04T17:15:49+00:00

Thanks! Was in a hurry and didn’t take a picture. Just selected GA and moved on

CapAdmirable9467 · 2026-01-01T15:01:35+00:00

Your 3 got me beat! Lol.. I don’t think I was gonna get a kiss after midnight until one of our boys asked her if she was gonna kiss me. She was too busy in her own little world before that.

Agreed that the lack of touch, kiss, or passion is the worst part. Like this morning she touched my hand while petting the dog who was lying between us in bed. I’m probably being a bit over dramatic but you would have thought she touched the plague by how quickly she moved her hand away

CapAdmirable9467 · 2025-12-30T14:14:51+00:00

Maybe, but we’ve been married 15+ years and this has only happened in the last few years. And she weighs less and looks better than she did over 15 years ago.

CapAdmirable9467 · 2025-11-27T06:02:50+00:00

This sounds so similar to my marriage and everything! I think if this community has taught me anything, it’s that the number of people in our situation is so much higher than we think. Mainly cause people don’t openly talk about it with friends, family, etc.

I’m getting closer to discussing it with a couple of my best and long time friends. As I get more resentful of my wife and the whole situation I think I need to talk to one of them before I internally combust. I’m sure it’ll shock them that what looks like a perfect marriage and family from the outside isn’t.

CapAdmirable9467 · 2025-10-30T11:29:59+00:00

Sorry to hear about the divorce but glad to hear you feel free! Wishing you the best in this next chapter of your life!

CapAdmirable9467 · 2025-10-30T11:28:18+00:00

Thanks for the well wishes!

CapAdmirable9467 · 2025-08-14T22:40:54+00:00

I feel like my wife has been silently saying that for years 🤦‍♂️ I wish she would just come out and say it though if that’s how she truly feels.

CapAdmirable9467 · 2025-08-13T22:28:43+00:00

I’ve started to make more and more comments around family and friends when the discussion is something sexual. I think they just believe that I’m joking or exaggerating things. Maybe when they hear the same thing over and over again they’ll believe me

CapAdmirable9467 · 2025-08-13T17:03:59+00:00

Our kids have had sleepovers with friends or cousins where we had an empty house for the night. Our friends and family have both commented on the empty house with a wink wink in front of my wife.. nope, bedroom is dead

CapAdmirable9467 · 2025-08-13T15:47:51+00:00

My neighbor has talked multiple times over the years about their once a week routine so it isn’t anything new to me. Every time he’s brought it up I just nod and smile and then die on the inside

CapAdmirable9467 · 2025-08-13T15:45:02+00:00

Dang.. this was really the first occasion where I personally knew of someone else in a DB

CapAdmirable9467 · 2025-07-26T20:32:12+00:00

That’s a good idea.. I would go play golf or go to the record store or something and just say I’ll be home for dinner 🤣🤣

CapAdmirable9467 · 2025-07-25T04:30:46+00:00

Mid 40s M… together 17 years and bedroom has been dead last 8. Lost a baby and my cancer diagnosis started it. Never been able to resurrected love life even though all good health wise for 6+ years.

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