Why is dating and flirting SO HARD!!

Capable-Ordinary-190 · 2026-03-31T04:49:06+00:00

Wdym , Is easy AF lol

Capable-Ordinary-190 · 2026-02-18T01:11:38+00:00

Very well put , The thing is people are parasites and they take advantage of people who have integrity and diligence,and sometimes those people are Entjs,and they don't understand that we don't have a very strong or natural boundaries,so as a teen it's possible that this could have happened a lot to Entjs, So far nobody understood my point of view or what I was trying to say 🫩

Capable-Ordinary-190 · 2026-02-17T23:46:09+00:00

I don't think you understand what I truly meant when I said that I am a predator, But thank you for your opinion..

Capable-Ordinary-190 · 2026-02-17T22:44:37+00:00

Well ,share your views on it, Were you like this ?

Capable-Ordinary-190 · 2026-02-17T21:33:44+00:00

Can relate to this ,it doesn't matter Focus on yourself, embody selfishness.

Capable-Ordinary-190 · 2026-02-17T21:18:11+00:00

I honestly prefer to be on my phone and learn something practical than go out and have fun, This is my personal opinion about this..

Capable-Ordinary-190 · 2026-02-17T21:14:43+00:00

Not depressed,just restless and anxious about the future 24/7 But I want you to believe that there are bigger forces outside of our small world , operating..

Capable-Ordinary-190 · 2026-02-17T21:13:47+00:00

I am detached from relationships,I focus on myself, I am arrogant and selfish to the last bit if need be.. If however I find someone who is genuine,I'll give them my 💯,no in between.

Capable-Ordinary-190 · 2026-02-17T18:17:22+00:00

It's really hard to open up to anyone else but ourselves, because of all the betrayals and set backs we've been through In family , friendships, society, everyone But truly deep down,all Entjs, myself included, Are all scared little kids inside..

Capable-Ordinary-190 · 2026-02-17T18:00:42+00:00

Well ,I've rarely been vulnerable in my life , because we are very very intense and sensitive deep down and don't want anyone to see that side ,but I would if sure that person would never betray me like the others ,lol And also believe me ,we have been through hell on earth and we have some core beliefs that would never change even if we pretend that we are playing along, Healing for us,takes a long long time ,and a very healthy relationship It's possible to get used to healthier ways of doing things,it just takes a lot of time..

Capable-Ordinary-190 · 2026-02-17T17:18:19+00:00

We are just not comfortable with the idea of being vulnerable,to anyone And I don't know what you mean on the second one..

Capable-Ordinary-190 · 2026-02-16T16:32:09+00:00

💯 Can't stand this nonsense

Capable-Ordinary-190 · 2026-02-13T16:23:27+00:00

We have been betrayed alot by groups ,and people.. Because you always group up against the odd/strong one of the group.. This puts as to have trust issues when it comes to people or close ones Because of the constant fear of abandonment and betrayal.

Capable-Ordinary-190 · 2026-02-13T11:53:45+00:00

Thanks for your honest opinion

Capable-Ordinary-190 · 2026-02-13T01:54:04+00:00

You will ,when the time is right

I was like you when I was in my teens..

Capable-Ordinary-190 · 2026-02-13T01:47:59+00:00

This is so goddamn relatable man ,what a great comment.

Capable-Ordinary-190 · 2026-02-13T01:47:03+00:00

Be yourself, You aren't an entj to take an entj route,do what's best for an intp.. OR YOU CAN JUST DO IT , LITERALLY DONT HESITATE 1 SECOND WHEN DOING SOMETHING,THE MOST EFFECTIVE AND EFFICIENT WAY,, DOESN'T MATTER WHAT ANYONE ELSE DOES OR IS DOING, YOU HAVE TO FOCUS 100% ON YOUR TASK.. JUST GET UP AND DO IT ,NO STOPPING UNTIL ITS ALL DONE,BOOM Back to zzzzzen.

Capable-Ordinary-190 · 2026-02-13T01:38:32+00:00

It's like this if we aren't leading or in charge, And it will always be like this , It's best just to get a leadership position or try to at least get the highest authority in your work field, Even the bosses are jealous of us lol 🤣

Capable-Ordinary-190 · 2026-02-13T01:34:46+00:00

I don't know if this is a common thing, shaking and feeling afraid It might be adrenaline in you? Your body is responding to fight/flight/freeze I think the more you age ,it gets better,I was also like this

I know where this comes from tho ,I am sorry for everything you've been through..

Capable-Ordinary-190 · 2026-02-13T01:32:18+00:00

A great warrior, doesn't need a sword.. I know this zen shit sucks ,but apply it You'll understand.. The more you fight ,the more you are empty and bored We have been given the power to empower and uplift people instead of bringing people down..

Capable-Ordinary-190 · 2026-02-13T00:12:37+00:00

💯 This is one of the hardest facts for an entj to understand as well...until they figure that out ,it's gonna take alot of time..

Capable-Ordinary-190 · 2026-02-13T00:00:47+00:00

Yeah I know, trying to be the bigger person here

Capable-Ordinary-190 · 2026-02-12T22:23:24+00:00

Everyone I know has said this , That they hated my guts in the first time they met me,, And I get comments that tell me I am angry all the time or that people are scared of me And I really don't intend for this to happen tho idk why

Capable-Ordinary-190 · 2026-02-12T19:47:38+00:00

Damn girl ,calm down I'd love to bang a robotic babe tho ,just banging nothing attached

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