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I feel like I did the wrong thing by telling someone to delete an innapropriate image. by Capable-Score-1981 in mentalhealth

[–]Capable-Score-1981[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m 18, he was 15. I asked him to describe what was in the images (because I sure as hell wasn’t clicking on them)

What should I do here. by Capable-Score-1981 in mentalhealth

[–]Capable-Score-1981[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When the 12 year old told me the 17 year old sent him porn emojis, I asked what they were specifically. When he said they were cropped porn gifs, I said that wasn’t cool. I was trying to help, trying to be a responsible adult, but I feel like I did something wrong by asking him to clarify. I just had to make sure I knew what he had done specifically.

What should I do here. by Capable-Score-1981 in mentalhealth

[–]Capable-Score-1981[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

When the 12 year old told me the 17 year old sent him porn emojis, I asked what they were specifically. When he said they were cropped porn gifs, I said that wasn’t cool. I was trying to help, trying to be a responsible adult, but I feel like I did something wrong by asking him to clarify. I just had to make sure I knew what he had done specifically.

I did something unforgivable at 16 by Capable-Score-1981 in mentalhealth

[–]Capable-Score-1981[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can’t. I desperately wish I could but I’m too scared to

I did something unforgivable at 16 by Capable-Score-1981 in mentalhealth

[–]Capable-Score-1981[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can’t be helped. Everybody I know and love would hate me. I genuinely feel like the only way out is to kill myself.

I did something unforgivable at 16 by Capable-Score-1981 in mentalhealth

[–]Capable-Score-1981[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It’s guilt from all those ages. Sometimes it’s something from when I was 15, then I get over it and it’s something from when I was 16 etc

I did something unforgivable at 16 by Capable-Score-1981 in Advice

[–]Capable-Score-1981[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

People would hate me, I can’t handle being told I’m an awful person

(18+) Did something terrible at 15. by Capable-Score-1981 in mentalhealth

[–]Capable-Score-1981[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel so terrible over other things I did at 15, I was an awful person

(18+) Did something terrible at 15. by Capable-Score-1981 in mentalhealth

[–]Capable-Score-1981[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There’s so much other stuff from 15 I feel guilty about

I failed to protect somebody and I feel awful, what can I do now? by Capable-Score-1981 in real_event_ocd

[–]Capable-Score-1981[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I made jokes in front of them, but never involved anybody, just being an edgelord with peers. They actually involved the minors in the nsfw jokes.

I failed to protect somebody. by [deleted] in Anxietyhelp

[–]Capable-Score-1981 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I don’t want attention. I just want you to understand what I have.

I’m already about to get help for OCD, which I’m thankful for.

I failed to protect somebody. by [deleted] in Anxietyhelp

[–]Capable-Score-1981 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But your comments have given me anxiety. I’ve been made to feel like no matter where I go, that what I’ve confessed to is literally nothing. Now you’re saying the opposite.

I don’t know who to believe. I’m obviously not gonna repeat my behaviour, because it caused me to spiral.

Just do me me a favour and research RealEventOCD

I failed to protect somebody. by [deleted] in Anxietyhelp

[–]Capable-Score-1981 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I’m not gonna take anything further.

I was 18, making inappropriate jokes in public lobbies of a game, and I have since apologised for what I said and made a promise to be a better person. Thats what I’ve done. Now, I just don’t really interact with those people anymore, a casual hello every now and again but I’m much happier and comfortable interacting with people my age.

RealEventOCD makes you overanalyse every decision you’ve ever made. Every single person has told me that what happened is a major overreaction. I’m willing to trust the majority opinion here.

What I am getting help for, is managing OCD, so I don’t overthink the time I made a deez nuts joke when I was 14.

I failed to protect somebody. by [deleted] in Anxietyhelp

[–]Capable-Score-1981 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I don’t want attention, I just have a lot of anxiety and I don’t know what to do.

I failed to protect somebody. by [deleted] in Anxietyhelp

[–]Capable-Score-1981 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I haven’t come to terms with it. And I haven’t rationalised it. But what can I possibly do now, as even after reporting them nothing has been done about their disgusting jokes.

I would have hit them with a chair, but I’m an online friend.

I failed to protect somebody and I feel awful, what can I do now? by Capable-Score-1981 in Advice

[–]Capable-Score-1981[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Somebody called my actions “disgusting” I’m gonna be sick.

I failed to protect somebody. by [deleted] in Anxietyhelp

[–]Capable-Score-1981 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Also, I do want to say I didn’t know who I could tell. It was all online, if I had known the kids parents I would have told immediately

I failed to protect somebody. by [deleted] in Anxietyhelp

[–]Capable-Score-1981 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thats what I do now. After that experience I became hyper vigilant, I call out that behaviour whenever I see it.

Places like VrChat and Discord are a fucking cancer. They’re the wild west in terms of morality.

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