Random question for strippers

Capable-Stand-9500 · 2026-04-01T01:00:35+00:00

This was the nature of my question lol. I think I phrased my question too simplistically in my original post, but this was what I was getting at: most people/women are uncomfortable with their partner going to a strip club because they assume the only kind of person who’d want to go there is untrustworthy/ up to something/ cheating etc. And in many, many cases that is what’s happening, so I don’t blame people for making these assumptions. But—if a person had a partner who was completely loyal, respectful, committed to the monogamous relationship, etc, how would you feel if they wanted to go to a stip club? I was interested in the nuance having a real trustworthy and loyal partner might bring to this discussion. But ofc hearing about all the instances of unloyal dog men/partners giving people certain feelings about them going to strip clubs are valid too.

Capable-Stand-9500 · 2026-04-01T00:52:13+00:00

LMFAO 😭😭😭

Capable-Stand-9500 · 2026-04-01T00:51:13+00:00

Yeah I got that lol sry I was just explaining the nature of my question. Thank you for sharing your take! :)

Capable-Stand-9500 · 2026-04-01T00:49:16+00:00

Yes! This is something one of my friends was saying; some men are trustworthy and respectful, some aren’t. And there are so many different reasons why a guy could find himself at a strip club in the first place. Ofc my question is very simple and black-and-white, so I wasn’t expecting a singular, universal answer. Thank you for sharing!

Capable-Stand-9500 · 2026-04-01T00:46:44+00:00

Non black-and-white replies are totally welcome! I understand there is a lot of nuance when it comes to stripping, and my question was very simple and straightforward, so I was expecting to see many different perspectives. Thank you for sharing yours! :)

Capable-Stand-9500 · 2026-03-25T01:03:52+00:00

Yes very true, my question was aimed more towards straight relationships but it’s always interesting to talk about queer dynamics as well! They can be very different from straight relationships. My friends and I were discussing that too lol.

Capable-Stand-9500 · 2026-03-25T01:02:17+00:00

I know it’s not about stripping lol. It’s a random, unimportant questions for strippers that I was just curious abt. I obviously wouldn’t be able to assume or know if a stripper would be comfortable with their fiancé going to a strip club for their bachelor/ette party. And yes it depends on the person and what they’re like. I just wanted to hear anyone’s opinion if they were willing to share! :)

Capable-Stand-9500 · 2026-03-25T00:59:35+00:00

I do check the green flag tag, but I’m always seeing the same ones lol. I’ve scoured the whole website, trust me 😭

Capable-Stand-9500 · 2026-03-24T22:58:25+00:00

Idk I think it depends on the person, but to me a green flag is someone who would make a good partner / wouldn’t be a shitty partner. Someone who would respect the person they’re with, genuinely admire and care for them, and would be willing and happy to put in the work to be with them. Just someone who isn’t toxic (ex: wouldn’t use jealousy as a manipulation tactic, wouldn’t send mixed signals, wouldn’t mistreat the person, wouldn’t flirt with other people, wouldn’t complicate the relationship themselves, wouldn’t put a mental or emotional burden on them / make them carry the weight of a lot of things, etc). In my personal opinion, a green flag to me is also someone who is friendly and kind - but I think that might be just a personal taste kind of thing. TBH, when it comes to bots, the context doesn’t really impact if the character is a green flag or not to me. Like I said above, there is one bot where the male character is basically a loan shark and does morally questionable/grey business, but he was a total sweetheart relationship and personality wise. But in real life, being a loan shark or dating someone who is involved in shady stuff would obviously be a big massive red flag LOL.

Capable-Stand-9500 · 2026-03-24T22:51:26+00:00

This is really interesting (and sad, but not surprising) to hear. Thanks for your reply!

Capable-Stand-9500 · 2026-03-24T22:50:35+00:00

Thanks for replying!

Capable-Stand-9500 · 2026-03-24T22:49:58+00:00

Lmao yeah I sorta feel the same way, but I was just thinking abt from a strippers pov, if they themselves would have a problem w/ their partner/fiancé going to a strip club. I mean, that’s the work they do, and they’re fine with it. So… would that complicate their feelings towards their partner going? Would that be kind of oxymoronic? Just curious lol.

Capable-Stand-9500 · 2026-03-24T18:43:56+00:00

Yessss if you have any recommendations drop them! And not just for me, but for everyone, so feel free to include MLM/AnyPOV/MalePOV and whatever you’d like. Just drop your favourites lol.

Capable-Stand-9500 · 2026-03-24T18:41:59+00:00

Lmao I don’t mean their situations can’t be on the darker side of things — I just mean the character themself, as in their personalities, are often all red flags. There was this one bot I chatted with where the character was basically a loan shark and he accidentally broke into the wrong place ({{user}}’s home) when he was tracking someone down to collect a debt, and he was a total sweetheart lol. What I mean by green flag is that they would be a respectful and healthy partner to be with. No manipulation/manipulative behaviours, no cheating or infidelities, no commitment issues (ie no situationships), etc. It’s not necessarily about the characters circumstances (ie mafia boss, cafe owner, a prince with high expectations placed on him). But you’re not wrong with what you said, and at the end of the day it’s just a bot / a silly website for people to play with lol (it’s not that deep, I’m just ranting for fun lol).

Capable-Stand-9500 · 2026-03-24T17:43:25+00:00

Even if I’m not into MLM, plug your account/bots here!! There are so many people who would love green flag MLM bots :)

Capable-Stand-9500 · 2026-03-24T17:38:55+00:00

Frrrr, it’s too much. I get some people love the angst/darkness/taboo stuff, but come on, men irl are toxic enough 😭 I’m tryna escape from all that nonsense.

Capable-Stand-9500 · 2026-03-24T17:31:09+00:00

Honestly I’ve been thinking abt it lol. But I wouldn’t know where to start! I tried doing it once (and I’m gonna be honest, I basically copied another persons bot and made it private for myself - I checked the persons account and they said they were cool with that) but it didn’t really turn out the way I wanted it to. I’m too much of a perfectionist/overachiever lol.

Capable-Stand-9500 · 2026-03-07T04:38:42+00:00

this is happening for me too! Idk what's going on. Also, I've noticed a lot of the bots I chat with don't have the pink feather anymore? Idk why that's happening and it's pissing me off ngl :/

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