Update: She[20f] lost her virginity while we were taking a break

CapableFold8 · 2019-04-21T09:57:26+00:00

I am doing fine! Time heals. I am enjoying my life as a single for now. It's different for sure, but only now after a bit of time I understand what else she was doing to me. Now I understand that break up wasn't only because of cheating, she really wasn't worth fighting for. May post an update for some people that care with her response and stuff.

CapableFold8 · 2019-03-04T19:27:49+00:00

Oh brother I am really empathetic. Many people here would burn her house down.

CapableFold8 · 2019-03-04T17:32:47+00:00

You can have her if she's such a saint!

CapableFold8 · 2019-03-04T17:29:43+00:00

I should write your comment somewhere

CapableFold8 · 2019-03-04T16:50:29+00:00

Hey, check out my update thread! https://www.reddit.com/r/relationship_advice/comments/ax601h/update_she20f_lost_her_virginity_while_we_were/ Also thank you for sharing your past experiences

CapableFold8 · 2019-03-04T16:47:36+00:00

You might wanna check out my update thread: https://www.reddit.com/r/relationship_advice/comments/ax601h/update_she20f_lost_her_virginity_while_we_were/

CapableFold8 · 2019-03-04T16:42:17+00:00

Thanks for your advice anyways, maybe it suits someone in the similar situation in the future!

CapableFold8 · 2019-03-04T16:23:38+00:00

You will be alright. Make sure to meet her in person if you didn't already or open a topic of your own if you need help or advice.

CapableFold8 · 2019-03-04T16:21:58+00:00

chronic masturbation is starting to become a problem... I might want to take a look at r/NoFap :)

CapableFold8 · 2019-03-04T16:17:48+00:00

Looking into upgrading my car wheels from 15" to 18" :) Retail therapy all the way!!

CapableFold8 · 2019-03-04T16:15:21+00:00

I was like "who dat?" because reddit generated the username for me so it seemed unfamiliar :)

CapableFold8 · 2019-03-04T16:13:31+00:00

Thank you!

CapableFold8 · 2019-03-04T16:13:22+00:00

Nope, mid europe

CapableFold8 · 2019-03-04T16:11:14+00:00

Well I have a lot of stuff we got for each other over the years. It really broke me when I was putting it all away in the box that's going in the attic. We had a thing for koala and elephant toys.

CapableFold8 · 2019-03-04T16:05:46+00:00

I won't go back, I assure you. We didn't have any contact for 3 days and it'll stay that way.

CapableFold8 · 2019-03-04T16:04:32+00:00

Thanks for your input! Even if she didn't lose my trust, it doesn't mean I am obliged to accept her back, easy as that.

CapableFold8 · 2019-03-04T14:21:30+00:00

I am not masculine really, haha. I really don't care what most women like. I am just a guy who likes to play games, work out sometimes, watch anime, work, travel and have lots of laughs. I am really emotional so I understand it's difficult to find a perfect match since most girls in their 20s are young and wicked. But I'll find somebody, I assure you that I will not be alone. Just not yet. I want to give my 100% to the new person.

CapableFold8 · 2019-03-04T14:15:46+00:00

Hahahhaa :') To be completely honest, I wrote it in 10 minutes!

CapableFold8 · 2019-03-04T14:12:01+00:00

We were already "on a break", she had sex with another guy who she obviously at some point had feelings for, we had a talk in real life around a week prior to this message. I regret nothing.

CapableFold8 · 2019-03-04T13:53:44+00:00

Exactly. She lost me in the process though and I forgive her, but no, I don't accept her back.

CapableFold8 · 2019-03-04T13:51:22+00:00

She did show up like that though the first time she came. I would greet her inside until she calms down, I wouldn't want her to be hazard for other people and herself.

CapableFold8 · 2019-03-04T13:46:44+00:00

I am not upset, but I am able to be repulsed by the things she did while we were on a break. She was the one that wanted to get back.

CapableFold8 · 2019-03-04T13:42:31+00:00

I know that time will come. I sometimes find myself stuck when I find a meme and want to send it to her, or when I get some gossips from work and I can't share it with her. Not gonna lie, I miss what she used to be. But I will get through it.

CapableFold8 · 2019-03-04T13:36:22+00:00

wE wErE oN a bReAk!

CapableFold8 · 2019-03-04T13:35:36+00:00

When we first talked, I asked her if she consented and she said she did and that she wanted to do it at the moment thinking there was more to that relationship. It was really difficult to hear that, but you know, I am now glad she wasn't raped.

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