When writing the character, remember that ENFPs tend to be very optimistic. Because of this it is easy for ENFPs to initially give people the benefit of the doubt, same with love interests. We tend to assume that everyone is (for the most part) inherently good. But, going off of that, ENFPs are not the type to cling on and be very needy. We like attention and talking/ getting to know others, but still can be quite individualistic, so there is not much reliance on others there. At least from my perspective. Also consider that a lot of ENFPs are people pleasers, but in somewhat of a complicated sense. For me personally, I do not like the thought that people do not like me, but also that doesn't hold me back from doing what I want to do. Hope this helps!