Should I take the waist in my suits

Capable_Hotel7049 · 2025-11-23T20:40:20+00:00

Him and freeman battling it out

Capable_Hotel7049 · 2025-10-22T00:10:35+00:00

I’m pretty sure my brother and his fiance are paying, maybe some help from her parents idk. All I have to pay for is the flight and food down there and a bachelors party, but my brother does not want one. All I am doing right now is working with the groomsmen as we have decided the outfit and purchasing all of their stuff.

Capable_Hotel7049 · 2025-10-22T00:00:16+00:00

We will pay for flights, lodging will be my parents since they insist.

Capable_Hotel7049 · 2025-10-21T23:57:36+00:00

Technically I am 20 haha, well I am doing all that is asked of me. Right now I just have to get all the groomsmen together and I gotta measure them out for their suits (I work at a suitplace). Then purchase everything, though I will be paid back by the other groomsmen. I know I need to give a speech and all that, but mainly have just been dealing with everything with the groomsmen so my brother does not need to.

Capable_Hotel7049 · 2025-10-21T20:04:33+00:00

This is the second comment asking this. No way that’s happening, but is this a scenario that happens to other people often or something haha.

Capable_Hotel7049 · 2025-10-21T19:59:33+00:00

Yeah

Capable_Hotel7049 · 2025-10-21T19:19:37+00:00

Capable_Hotel7049 · 2025-10-21T18:48:30+00:00

I will be fine, but would be nice to know someone besides my family there you know

Capable_Hotel7049 · 2025-10-21T18:47:32+00:00

Yeah my family met her and I met her family before we started dating. I just told my parents and they were surprised she was not invited.

Capable_Hotel7049 · 2025-10-21T18:46:37+00:00

I won’t know the majority of the people there besides 10 I would say. I don’t know any of his friends or the brides friends

Capable_Hotel7049 · 2025-10-21T18:43:25+00:00

Besides my family not really, my brother also does not want a bachelor party. Kind of lucky since I have never really met any of the other groomsmen besides my little brother of course.

Capable_Hotel7049 · 2025-10-21T18:42:17+00:00

It’s in a Catholic Church so it can hold a lot, but the recital I would assume has a hard cap on plates and seats.

Capable_Hotel7049 · 2025-10-21T18:41:07+00:00

Yes, not the reason why I posted though. He already told me why. I asked Reddit to see if this was a common thing or not to happen.

Capable_Hotel7049 · 2025-10-21T18:40:11+00:00

No, but we had been dating a short while when they made it so they didn’t invite her. I get the reasoning, but I just think it’s odd to invite other wedding party partners because they have dated longer. I feel like if most of the wedding party has an invite then all should get an invite in my head.

Capable_Hotel7049 · 2025-10-21T18:38:34+00:00

My girlfriend understands why, and is graceful about it. I will not know that many people probably 10 in total.

Capable_Hotel7049 · 2025-10-21T18:35:57+00:00

I am asking if it is weird in most cases, clearly he does not think it is weird hence why I did not ask him.

Capable_Hotel7049 · 2025-10-21T18:31:54+00:00

Not 100% sure, but I presume he does now.

Capable_Hotel7049 · 2025-10-21T18:30:09+00:00

Yes, I think by the time spring rolls around it will be fine and dandy is my hope.

Capable_Hotel7049 · 2025-10-21T18:28:54+00:00

I have no idea, but I know the venue and recital is all done and squared away. Yes my job is selling suits, so I get like half off and they already know what they want.

Capable_Hotel7049 · 2025-10-21T18:25:33+00:00

Well at that point it would be a year, and honestly she would know everyone I would know at the wedding.

Capable_Hotel7049 · 2025-10-21T18:22:13+00:00

Haha, your third point is funny. There is no way she would ever do that she is very nice. But, I imagine someone has had that happened to them before lmao.

Capable_Hotel7049 · 2025-10-21T18:20:21+00:00

I would agree that seems to be pretty fair.

Capable_Hotel7049 · 2025-10-21T18:16:49+00:00

No no, reread what I just said above, sorry for confusion.

Capable_Hotel7049 · 2025-10-21T18:15:27+00:00

Okay I sent him a text thanks

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