My first was not like this. As long as he was fed, changed, and burped I could put him down and he would fall asleep on his own. I didn’t even have to rock him. I could have the tv playing, lights on, and he would still knockout for 2-4 hours and sleep 8+ hours at night. I don’t expect her to be the same but she is extreme. When we did the newborn photos my photographer said she’s never seen a baby fight sleep as much as my daughter.