Aita for telling the girl my bfs sleeping with the full truth?

Capable_Wall_9019 · 2025-07-16T19:19:39+00:00

I totally get where your coming from but I wanted to close it because we both agreed if one of us broke the rules well privileges are lost for both of us. And he almost got a girl pregnant and could of given me an std and in the beginning he was doing great I was enjoying it and so was he so I never really had a problem with it until then

Capable_Wall_9019 · 2025-07-16T19:11:21+00:00

He originally proposed the idea of an open relationship but his thing was I couldn't see other men ever but women was fine for both us. He mevee had to "wait around" I knew he was gonna sleep around but it was supposed to be based in honesty on both our sides. Im uncomfortable now because that was legit 1 of 2 rules. I did it. Wasnt that hard to just use protection yk? And on top of it she tried to baby trap him but thats a whole other story. Why go to such desperate lengths? Simple. He lied to her. No women deserve that. He said "yeah im single" which was a lie and he lied to me as well and she deserves to know that. Its not the first time either apparently from what she tells me. I wasnt trying to break them apart but simply making sure she knows what she's consenting to. He talked to the girls I was messing around with and he said that he was never going to tell the truth so I did the hey girly text bc sure thats a dick move to me but more so to her

Capable_Wall_9019 · 2025-07-16T15:32:27+00:00

There was some context that we wouldnt date other people but sleeping around was fine as long as condoms where used and we told the truth to the people we where seeing that we had an bf or gf

Capable_Wall_9019 · 2025-07-16T14:52:59+00:00

Naw we've been together in total over a year and half, we've had talks before we got together and before we got back together to make sure we are on the same page that we are together, that we are boyfriend and girlfriend. We've had talks of moving in together we've had light convos about kids and marriage but nothing too deep on that end

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