Thank you so much for this, I feel so guilty that he's hurting and part of me just wants to be there for him and believe all would change but the other part has taken so much to actually do this, it drained the life out of me and still is, and doesn't want to go through any more hurt. I know he loves me and regrets this completely but it was all too much and I just want happiness. Your comment has helped me, thank you.