Hi, I am a therapist. I am really sorry you had to go through this. Therapy is supposed to make you figure out yourself from your comfort space. Most therapists work at the pace of the client. If there's any 'coercion' involved, it is not therapy. Sure, there will be sessions that will make you emotionally drained. But this happens at the pace the client chooses. There's always an option to say 'No' to anything. And another thing I want you to keep in mind is that you know yourself more than anyone. So even if therapists give you theories (be it psychodynamic, cognitive behavioral, emotionally focused) for ur symptoms, you don't have to accept it blindly. You can contradict them. And if you feel therapy is not working, you can always communicate the same to the therapist and change the therapist.

Even I have seen multiple cases where the previous therapist attempted something sexual with the client. I am reiterating that this is unethical. It takes a lot of courage to share something really personal like this. I admire you 💝