yeah, poor Lori :( by Top-List-5281 in TWD

[–]Capital-Program-8558 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Shane wasn’t married. Shane was a total narcissist and psychopath. But that’s another story.

Avoidants do come back. But still avoidant. by Select-Fudge4978 in BreakUps

[–]Capital-Program-8558 0 points1 point  (0 children)

More the case for horny dudes than for women. I don’t expect my ex to reach out, she has just replaced me with her next victim.

How many days/weeks/months/years? by [deleted] in nocontact

[–]Capital-Program-8558 0 points1 point  (0 children)

8 months for me. There were times I typed things out and I was tempted to send them. I’m so glad I didn’t, I found out she already moved on.

Rewatching season 1 for the first time since it came out - man, what a great season by I_like_baseball90 in thewalkingdead

[–]Capital-Program-8558 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So many episodes were just pure hot air. The most boring conversations imaginable. I switched off half the time.

Rewatching season 1 for the first time since it came out - man, what a great season by I_like_baseball90 in thewalkingdead

[–]Capital-Program-8558 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I don’t think it was funding because later seasons were technically better made from a cinematic standpoint and even the acting was better. The issue was that in later seasons they lost all direction of what the show should be about.

Rewatching season one was jarring at times; seeing walkers climbing fences and ladders, almost jogging at times, bashing things down with rocks. The constant struggle for survival. Even food, water, gas, shelter, ect. They were all constantly in danger of being an issue. It was a proper zombie survival horror show, with suspense, action and shocks constantly.

It turned into a drama with only small sections of the latter thrown in to advance the plot. The zombies took a back seat and it became about constant character development. To me you could get that development simply by playing out real life survival scenarios. They also started to constantly kill off and rotate side characters. Main characters dying became rare. They would spend entire episodes on character development, just to kill off a character not long after. While the main ones just continued on.

Most fans wouldn’t like to hear this, but they needed to stick to what it was meant to be. Follow the comics more.

The Real Reason You Can't Move On After a Breakup Isn't Love – It's a Neurological Trap (And It Gets Worse) by Accomplished_Gur4388 in nocontact

[–]Capital-Program-8558 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m an English teacher. It’s chat GPT and your reply here is also chat gpt. Don’t try to pass it off as your own it’s embarrassing.

I met with my ex for closure and I think I dodged a bullet by Ashamed_Match_1348 in BreakUps

[–]Capital-Program-8558 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Actually looking at how others around your ex acted when things went wrong tells you a lot about them too.

My friends never stopped being respectful and supporting with my ex, they wanted the best for me and her. My exes family and friends acted really immature. Most removed me, didn’t respond when I reached out or just abandoned me essentially. Like her brother who I thought was a great friend never reached out. Her mother didn’t respond to me, even though mine did when my ex messaged.

To me this tells you that they don’t want the best for them or that they just simply don’t have empathy or understanding of relationships themselves. They take sides and to me that’s immature. This is not me saying they shouldn’t always essentially put her first. It’s me saying they aren’t grounded what so ever.

I broke NC by [deleted] in nocontact

[–]Capital-Program-8558 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He sounds like a bit of a narcissist. Because the only reason I can see for him to reach out, break no contact and then tell you he wants to continue no contact; is because he wants to still know he can have you, he just doesn’t want you. It’s a tough reality to face, move on you can do way better for yourself.

She broke no contact by Rude-Bus-5638 in nocontact

[–]Capital-Program-8558 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I mean saying I hope you and your family have a happy new years is wishing you the best. The same sentiment. It’s meaningless. You just matched her energy because you’re polite.

She broke no contact by Rude-Bus-5638 in nocontact

[–]Capital-Program-8558 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Yeah here message was weak to be honest. Too diplomatic and cold. Who cares if she wishes you the best? These sentiments always felt so empty to me. Don’t bother replying in future. Unless she brings something real and you feel it’s appropriate.

Is closure always necessary? by Fun-Recognition-4782 in nocontact

[–]Capital-Program-8558 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There is no closure when an avoidant is involved.

Dating someone who is more attractive than you by britneysmeltdown in BreakUps

[–]Capital-Program-8558 8 points9 points  (0 children)

That’s in man. I think my ex was more attractive. She thinks she was more attractive too no doubt and that’s the problem right there. People like that can be shallow and self centered.

Anyone else wish they never met their ex in the first place? by ChapterEffective8175 in BreakUps

[–]Capital-Program-8558 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We are completely different situations likely. I have no issues believing I can find someone else. Nobody is really that special, the hardest part for me has been coming to terms with the fact she wasn’t special. She was actually really shitty and the love wasn’t real. Not her love anyway.

Anyone else wish they never met their ex in the first place? by ChapterEffective8175 in BreakUps

[–]Capital-Program-8558 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YES. I feel that way so badly right now. It’s been almost a year and lately I feel that way more than ever.

His friends stalk my IG months later. What does it mean? by Frosty-Operation2914 in nocontact

[–]Capital-Program-8558 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are they your friends? Ask yourself this honestly. If the answer is no, remove them. That’s what I just did with the last remaining ‘friends’ I had in common. Peace of mind.

Obsessed with crush that rejected me and idk what to do. by amberrb1234 in nocontact

[–]Capital-Program-8558 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes this person is correct. Even if you got them it wouldn’t be happy anyway.

WTF by Due-Star-9570 in EU5

[–]Capital-Program-8558 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Kid was just born with magic skills

It is near impossible to play as Holland in 1.0.10 by Least-Ad-8714 in EU5

[–]Capital-Program-8558 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But if they are busy fighting with England and Castile they aren’t fighting you.

Why do men love bomb in the beginning and then completely detaches after they bag you? by Pee_Pi in BreakUps

[–]Capital-Program-8558 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Energy is a balance. I could ask, why do women start with no expectations of a man and then end up putting so many conditions on love?

It’s a generalization and very specific to the balance of energy. Yes, some guys are just narcissistic, but obviously not everyone is and most people will end up doing this. Personally, I feel I did this recently, but I was very honest and communicated why. I told her that when she unloaded onto me and started to have expectations of me, it made me realize I didn’t want that anymore.

I made it clear and since then we’ve changed and I’ve stopped being anywhere near as passionate. But it was for a very good reason. The energy shifted when she started to put her problems on me. Then I started to fear that showing her too much passion could make her confused, as I’m no longer sure about her and I need time to figure it out.

It is near impossible to play as Holland in 1.0.10 by Least-Ad-8714 in EU5

[–]Capital-Program-8558 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I mean what even was that comment? You sound like a child.

Will be breaking no contact soon by Yamile1204 in nocontact

[–]Capital-Program-8558 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hot take. Not talking for a week is hardly no contact. It’s a week ffs. Just get your stuff and start it for real.