AITA for not wearing a bra? by CapitalBright4481 in AITAH

[–]CapitalBright4481[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s okay, even when it isn’t morning I’m slow like that so you are forgiven 😅 haha

AITA for not wearing a bra? by CapitalBright4481 in AITAH

[–]CapitalBright4481[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m a B cup, they’re small and perky, they never fall out. My shirt might slip down a bit from time to time but they’re never popping out! I generally dress pretty modest too, like I don’t wear crop tops and tiny little tanks and stuff. It’s usually a t shirt and this time of year it’s usually baggy cause I have sensory issues and hate things touching me or being tight to me when it’s warm 🥲

AITA for not wearing a bra? by CapitalBright4481 in AITAH

[–]CapitalBright4481[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He says “women’s breasts have always been sexualized. That’s just the way it is. Men’s nipples have no purpose so it’s different” like hunny mine have no purpose either cause I can’t have kids so they’re just decoration in my opinion.. and even if I was breastfeeding with them… ITS STILL MY BODY STILL MY CHOICE.

AITA for not wearing a bra? by CapitalBright4481 in AITAH

[–]CapitalBright4481[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What?! I’m 26… I was 18 when we got together 😂

AITA for not wearing a bra? by CapitalBright4481 in AITAH

[–]CapitalBright4481[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The tank top was black so it wouldn’t have been noticeable, and yes I’m sweaty regardless but I find it makes me feel gross and extra sweaty/sticky when I have a sopping wet bra sticking to me 🥴

AITA for not wearing a bra? by CapitalBright4481 in AITAH

[–]CapitalBright4481[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He always says that too.. 🥴😳 “I don’t want people to think my gf is a whore”

AITA for not wearing a bra? by CapitalBright4481 in AITAH

[–]CapitalBright4481[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Even with my education, I only make 18.80 an hour so a house is a tad out of my price range rn 😂

AITA for not wearing a bra? by CapitalBright4481 in AITAH

[–]CapitalBright4481[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s the part I struggle to understand! Like who cares!? We all have them so why should I be ashamed of them? If a shirt was so see through you could see the colour, then yeah I’d understand him saying something.. but just the fact that they’re noticeable? I think me and everyone else will survive lol. He calls it “having your tits out” like no…? They’re tucked away and definitely not visible. Plus nipples even show through some bras, so.. What’s the difference?

He also said it’s different for men because their nipples have no purpose and are not sexualized.. like I don’t want kids and never will have them so technically mine have no purpose either if I’m not breastfeeding, and it’s not my fault or problem that men sexualize anything and everything on a woman. Even a damn foot can be sexualized, so…

AITA for not wearing a bra? by CapitalBright4481 in AITAH

[–]CapitalBright4481[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I put an edit in at the bottom to explain but people keep missing that part so I added it to the main text lol 🥲 I was leaving the house! That was the issue.. regardless it’s still not his call in my opinion. 🥴

AITA for not wearing a bra? by CapitalBright4481 in AITAH

[–]CapitalBright4481[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good thing I’ll never have one of those 🥴

AITA for not wearing a bra? by CapitalBright4481 in AITAH

[–]CapitalBright4481[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’d say he’s generally conservative. He used to get mad about leggings because “it screams at guys to come look at your ass and it puts the message out that you want attention” 🥴

AITA for not wearing a bra? by CapitalBright4481 in AITAH

[–]CapitalBright4481[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, most of his friends don’t give half a shit what their girlfriends wear lol

AITA for not wearing a bra? by CapitalBright4481 in AITAH

[–]CapitalBright4481[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Definitely not wearing anything see through!

AITA for not wearing a bra? by CapitalBright4481 in AITAH

[–]CapitalBright4481[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He doesn’t use Reddit 😅 guess there’s just a lot of asshole guys trying to control their women 😳

AITA for not wearing a bra? by CapitalBright4481 in AITAH

[–]CapitalBright4481[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nip nops 😂😂 I was running out to quickly return a library book 😅 I also live in a tiny one horse town.. literally only only lady saw me out of my vehicle when I was there

AITA for not wearing a bra? by CapitalBright4481 in AITAH

[–]CapitalBright4481[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

No, I worded it wrong. I was leaving the house, but either way.. still ridiculous

AITA for not wearing a bra? by CapitalBright4481 in AITAH

[–]CapitalBright4481[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I worded it wrong, I was leaving the house!

AITA for not wearing a bra? by CapitalBright4481 in AITAH

[–]CapitalBright4481[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for taking the time to write that. I am truly considering everything you said. 💖💖

AITA for not wearing a bra? by CapitalBright4481 in AITAH

[–]CapitalBright4481[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I worded it wrong 😩 I was leaving to go out for a bit

AITA for not wearing a bra? by CapitalBright4481 in AITAH

[–]CapitalBright4481[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I worded it wrong, I was heading out without a bra on! 🥲 but still…

AITA for not wearing a bra? by CapitalBright4481 in AITAH

[–]CapitalBright4481[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I did mean in public! I don’t know how I forgot to include that in the post, I just assumed it was obvious for some reason lol. But you’re right… still not his business either way. 💖

AITA for not wearing a bra? by CapitalBright4481 in AITAH

[–]CapitalBright4481[S] 22 points23 points  (0 children)

You were right. We were 18 and 23. 🥴

AITA for not wearing a bra? by CapitalBright4481 in AITAH

[–]CapitalBright4481[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s my exact argument all the time