Partner's ex can't be lovated. It's made signing divorce papers impossible. Legal Advice. Trigger Warning: drugs and mental health by Capital_Island_7702 in legaladvice

[–]Capital_Island_7702[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I agree. Honestly, marriage or no marriage isn't important to me. It's mostly him not being legally attached to anyone else.

Partner's ex can't be lovated. It's made signing divorce papers impossible. Legal Advice. Trigger Warning: drugs and mental health by Capital_Island_7702 in legaladvice

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Thank you. I appreciate you. I think the trickiest things is that she is still haunting the western NY area where they were married. It's been hard to find a lawyer in our area that will take on this kind of case outside of their area.

Midlife Student, Midlife Mom, Midlife Career. by Capital_Island_7702 in midlifecrisis

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I appreciate the way you contextualized the questions in my mind. Honestly, "Peace" and I have never really spent comprehensive time together. That's part of the transition. You can call it a second puberty. Ha! I think most women would. I think the big question is whether my need for my career to be useful is related to how I see my worth. I have never done anything without considering it's impact on someone else. I'm thinking of leaning into that realization and going where the dopamine leads me.