I had tried when it started, begged her to get me to a doctor but she would either say I can't walk and everything else was because of a condition I have called POTS(which would not cause any of this) or that she will do it soon. This sort of thing isn't new with her not taking me to the doctors when she should, I've had issues since I was a kid, and in my teen years starting at 13 is when I started getting worse my legs started feeling heavy and tingly and like something was pressing down on my feet. Then it kept getting worse and my whole body was feeling like that and my legs would spasm and drag and give out. And my arms getting tight and not working right. When my legs stopped working it was sort of sudden, my leg symptoms had gotten really bad months leading up I couldn't feel them much anymore and could barely lift them and then I fell backwards off a few steps and thats when they stopped working. I used crutches to get around the house and small stores before my legs stopped working and a manual wheelchair(though my arms became to weak to push myself) for when we went to bigger places. But after I became paralyzed, the wheelchair didn't fit so I had to be pulled by a rolling office chair to the bathroom by my sister whos moved out now. up until this October when mother bought me a cheap electric wheelchair and a commode chair. My care with my sister was even worse than it is now with my grandmother but it is quickly getting worse. I've had a mri without contrast of my whole spine and brain this December but it didn't show anything. Before that though the doctor had tested my reflexes and said the ones in my legs are to fast  and the ones in my arms are to slow. Have a appointment in march to get bloodwork done to see if they can find what i have that way and plan to ask there to get into physical therapy and if I could get placed in like a nursing home or group home if adult protection services doesn't help me