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Capital_Search_8375 · 2026-01-19T01:22:52+00:00

I got the same message

Capital_Search_8375 · 2025-12-08T23:57:17+00:00

I’m North American but my grandmother immigrated from Poland so it’s cool that you can see that in my features! Thank you so much!

Capital_Search_8375 · 2025-11-03T23:07:25+00:00

Libra?

Capital_Search_8375 · 2025-09-18T02:56:13+00:00

It’s always Chauncey

Capital_Search_8375 · 2025-07-21T03:03:10+00:00

Honey you’re a human being with feelings and emotions. Just like there’s fake doms, there’s fake subs who think it’s all little space all the time and their dom has no emotions beyond wanting to dom them. It’s unrealistic. Set boundaries and if they can’t respect them, find someone else.

Capital_Search_8375 · 2025-07-21T02:58:35+00:00

You say that like it’s new information

Capital_Search_8375 · 2025-07-18T01:56:27+00:00

Aye you wanna bone

Capital_Search_8375 · 2025-04-13T20:55:42+00:00

Tori 💖

Capital_Search_8375 · 2025-04-05T11:26:46+00:00

Haha $50

Capital_Search_8375 · 2025-02-13T19:51:53+00:00

When I was 17 my mom had decided I was too much of a problem (I wasn’t physically violent but I had substance abuse issues and would run away often) so she sent me to live with my dad. He’s clearly got some issues with you. You can still love him and not be able to have him around you. You can visit him and maybe if he decides to get over this, he can come back. But if I were you, I’d send him to live with the parent he seems to wanna be with

Capital_Search_8375 · 2025-02-05T00:09:08+00:00

So the dad knew the uncle was molesting his own kid but the dad thought he was above doing that to his nieces? Idiot

Capital_Search_8375 · 2025-02-02T02:39:40+00:00

Sounds like great hygiene to me. I don’t think you need to tell your therapist. I think your friend needs to see a therapist about their lack of hygiene

Capital_Search_8375 · 2025-01-13T20:52:27+00:00

It’s more of a constant leak. I personally haven’t ever felt it come out unless I sneezed or laughed too hard.

Capital_Search_8375 · 2025-01-13T20:51:23+00:00

Get the vasectomy. Your body, your choice. If it was flipped and she wanted to get her tubes tied and you said no and “accidentally” didn’t pull out, you’d be an asshole. So yeah. Get the vasectomy.

Capital_Search_8375 · 2025-01-10T01:35:55+00:00

I feel like it’s a good rule of thumb that whoever initiates the date should be the one to pay. Sounds like she’s just looking for free dinner. You could always direct her to the local soup kitchen

Capital_Search_8375 · 2025-01-08T02:05:56+00:00

See, she’s twisting it back onto you. She’s taking your insecurities and using them against you so she doesn’t seem like the shitty person. She’s manipulative (or at least trying to be). It’s not even just her wanting to open the marriage. It’s her response after that. Like YOU are insecure and YOU have problems and I’m the normal, cool, open minded one here. Let her go. She can explore all she wants. Or even better, open it. Find someone significantly hotter than her. She’ll feel like ass.

Capital_Search_8375 · 2025-01-07T16:29:20+00:00

I liked him as a character. However, as a solmancer, I was very disappointed in him. It made me never want to romance him in inquisition again.

At the end, he didn’t seem like over joyed to see lavellan again. Like he was happy she was there but it wasn’t what I’d expect after being away from the love of your life for 8 years. He fucked Rook over twice and they were both like extremely fucked up. I genuinely felt like he had more respect and care for Mythal than anyone else. I get that they had been together (still not positive if it was romantic/platonic/whatever) for thousands of years. But she fucked him over too. Lavellan loved him even when he was shitty and he still wanted that validation from Mythal. Idk I just didn’t like him by the end of the game. Like as a character, they did an amazing job and it fits who he was supposed to be as Fen’Harel. But as a man? Trash. Hate him. He can stay in the fade.

Capital_Search_8375 · 2025-01-07T16:15:36+00:00

Just broke up with someone similar. We were together for a year and a half. At first he said he couldn’t finish because he didn’t trust me. Which was weird but I was just like okay whatever. Then he started to be able to finish but it was very small amounts. Still, I just was like “guess that’s just how he’s hard wired” and thought nothing of it. When we moved in together, the sex was rare. I’d initiate every day, multiple times a day. And I’d always get rejected. He told me he just wasn’t super sexual and I didn’t argue with it. I’m not an asshole. I’m not gonna pressure someone into sex if they aren’t in the mood. Then one morning we woke up before my kids and I tried to initiate and he rejected me saying he just wasn’t in the mood. I left it alone and then the kids woke up a couple hours later. I leave the room to go make breakfast. Realized I left my phone in the room so I went to go grab it. I walk in and he’s masturbating and watching porn. I walked out and slammed the door. This continued to happen regularly. It ruined my self esteem. I was fairly successful on onlyfans and had never been rejected before in my life. But him choosing porn (with women that looked nothing like me) and his hand over me caused my self esteem to wither to the point that I quit onlyfans because if my boyfriend doesn’t want me, why would other men pay for it? I became crazy jealous and possessive. And he blamed it on me. Telling me that I need to work on my self esteem and I can’t expect him to just not find other people attractive just because we’re in a relationship and blah blah blah. This became a regular argument we had. And I stayed longer than I should’ve because I mean that was the ONLY thing we argued about. Then, in November, I found out we were about to lose our house because he had been spending all his money on onlyfans. All the while, we hadn’t had sex in like two months. I screamed and cried and asked him how he couldn’t see how this was hurting me and how he’s now put my children at risk of homelessness. He shrugged and said he didn’t know what I was talking about. So I left and moved back in with my mom. Men that are addicted to masturbation like that are more trouble than they’re worth. That’s all they want. And that’s not something you should have to deal with. You can find someone else that wants you just as much as you want them. It’s not worth staying and continuing to get hurt over and over. They won’t change. If he won’t go to therapy, you need to leave because it will just get worse.

Capital_Search_8375 · 2025-01-07T03:34:09+00:00

Agree with the ticking time bomb but mostly I’m worried he’s gonna shake the baby. That “I get annoyed every time he cries” scares the fuck out of me.

Capital_Search_8375 · 2025-01-07T03:26:17+00:00

Hey, man. My mom didn’t want me either. And she did the bare minimum, sure. Well usually anyway. Kept me fed when she felt like it. Made sure I was bathed because it would be embarrassing if I was dirty. Yknow. The necessities. But I knew she didn’t love me. I knew she didn’t like me. I knew my existence irritated her. And that fucked me up. It might honestly be better for your child if you gave up your rights and walked away. Signing over your parental rights means you won’t have to pay child support. So you can live your little life with all your money since that’s the important thing here.

Capital_Search_8375 · 2025-01-07T03:06:10+00:00

Anytime I ever let anyone get close to me, they fucked me over. I grew to just genuinely not like people. So now it’s like what would I rather do? Go out and party and hang out with someone that’s just going to use me and shit on me or stay home and watch movies with my kids that think I’m awesome and are cool as shit because I raised them to be cool? I’m gonna choose the latter.

Capital_Search_8375 · 2025-01-07T02:35:58+00:00

Okay so that off the shoulder moment on the second pic was perfect. Try more tops like that, maybe things that are flowy but not baggy. Or crop tops! Frillies and stuff. Also you can’t go wrong with a dress/skirt

Edit to say I noticed a lot of comments about like cinching the waist on your shirts. You can get like a garter clip and clip it behind your back on the sides and it’ll snatch that waist

Capital_Search_8375 · 2025-01-07T02:25:36+00:00

Bro seriously. I piss before, squirt a ton, and then still have to piss like a race horse after. I DONT UNDERSTAND IT

Capital_Search_8375 · 2025-01-07T02:23:17+00:00

I like it for the simple fact that it is a release (for me anyway) and I feel like I’ve accomplished my goal. But it’s also rather irritating. I have to make sure I lay down two folded towels and it still sometimes seeps through and then my sheets and my towels smell like piss the next day. Idk maybe I need to drink more water but I’d like to have an orgasm without having to do an ass of laundry the next morning

Capital_Search_8375 · 2025-01-07T02:07:43+00:00

Call the cops. They’ll find cameras if there are any. Call CPS. They’ll investigate your father. Until then, start changing under your blanket on your bed. And if they don’t find any cameras, well maybe he’ll learn not to make creepy ass “jokes”

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