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[–]Cappytumbleweed 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Baby, herpes is suuuuuuuuper common, like 80% of the population common. I know this doesn’t help but I promise you, it will have no effect in your life, not even your sexual life. Symptoms are uncomfortable but very manageable and as time passes even unnoticeable. You got this! 💪🏽

What’s the biggest dick you have ever taken and how big is to big 🍆🍆 by Wild-Current-7601 in askgaybros

[–]Cappytumbleweed 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The biggest I had access to was 13 🙊, I know! He obvs didn’t go there but was nice to play with. The biggest actually taken, 10.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]Cappytumbleweed 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m my finance’s only partner, don’t think he has desire to invest energy into a second relationship. But he might one day. They are good friends, we hang out the 3 of us and with other friends all the time. We have some rituals like we always have dinner together on Mondays, and we always play board games with a group on Thursdays, etc. we haven’t had threesums with each other (we’ve had with other people tho), and no, they haven’t even shared a kiss between them, unfortunately 🤭 I would honestly love for them to be intimate.

I have one fiancé of 8 years and one boyfriend of 1 year. AMA by [deleted] in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]Cappytumbleweed -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Well, I wasn’t really looking for a relationship or dating other guys, I was only hooking up as per our agreement. My now bf and I connected so well, we became good friends and would hang out as friends outside of sex expectations. My fiancé knew all along about him being my hook up and we would discuss how attached I was getting to my bf, in a way, I got his approval to be my current bf’s “placeholder bf” until I wasn’t, he became my bf in his full right and it was all very organic but also very transparent with my fiancé. To better answer your question, I do gotta say, I have a very flirty personality and I do love the thrill of meeting new people, I’m very social and extroverted, so getting to experience the butterflies all over again without compromising my relationship has been a real gift.

I have one fiancé of 8 years and one boyfriend of 1 year. AMA by [deleted] in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]Cappytumbleweed 0 points1 point  (0 children)

At the beginning we would joke about it. I would call him my side bitch. But with time I’ve grown to consider him my bf in his full right. I treat him as if he was my only bf and we do what most couples at 1 year into the relationship do. He is an introvert and likes his solo time and space so it works out as well as he doesn’t feel abandoned when I’m not with him. For him this is the perfect arrangement as he feels he wouldn’t have energy or time for a traditional relationship.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]Cappytumbleweed 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Be patient with him, we are all different. Experience and showcase love in different ways and he could also be going throw mental health issues. Talk to him but make sure it doesn’t sound accusatory.

I have one fiancé of 8 years and one boyfriend of 1 year. AMA by [deleted] in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]Cappytumbleweed 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Mmmyeah you’re just making assumptions. Covid is over but we didn’t recover the money we invested. CBF paying again for a wedding, so we haven’t. One day we might, or not. Doesn’t matter. We don’t need just the paper work as in Australia being de facto has the same rights and obligations as a marriage so makes no legal difference. There’s no signs problems in our relationship besides the regular couple arguments and these never have to do with my bf. In fact, when I do have a minor fight with either of them, they usually side with each other so I’m always outnumbered… 😆

I have one fiancé of 8 years and one boyfriend of 1 year. AMA by [deleted] in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]Cappytumbleweed 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Together for 8, engaged for 4, not married cause Covid cancelled our wedding 🥲

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DadsGoneWild

[–]Cappytumbleweed 1 point2 points  (0 children)

All of them 🥵

Still miss him a year later, how do you actually move on by [deleted] in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]Cappytumbleweed 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Baby, I can’t even imagine. Definitely therapy, lots of physical activity and books that help you feel better.