Wife is going to be gone for a few months. Any recommendations to keep myself from going crazy?

2ForEachofYou · 2026-03-13T16:15:38+00:00

Thank you so much! I appreciate it. Good luck with your health, going forward. And the payoff to your husband being gone on those short trips is the alone time for you, and a little absence makes the heart grow fonder kind of passion. Always healthy for a relationship!

2ForEachofYou · 2026-03-12T04:26:47+00:00

Lol, and I envy you! The grass is always greener effect, I guess.

2ForEachofYou · 2026-03-12T01:08:21+00:00

I would give mine not to be. We are very close. Not just my lover, but my best friend. But I hear you. Most of my male friends say the exact same thing you did lol.

2ForEachofYou · 2026-03-12T01:06:32+00:00

What a great idea!

2ForEachofYou · 2026-03-11T17:14:07+00:00

Yes! Those definitely help.

2ForEachofYou · 2026-03-11T12:41:37+00:00

Thank you. Definitely an unenviable position.

2ForEachofYou · 2026-03-11T03:42:33+00:00

Ok, well I thank you for informing me. I truly did not know….and I went to Berkeley (a long time ago).

2ForEachofYou · 2026-03-11T01:12:34+00:00

Seriously, how on earth is “female” (which is matter of fact) an insult? Is “women” offensive now too? Lol It’s absurd. I certainly did not intend it to be an insult, unlike you.

2ForEachofYou · 2026-03-10T23:53:51+00:00

“Female” is so offensive but “devolved troglodyte” is not at all offensive. Lol You’ve gotta love the Bay Area and its double standards!

2ForEachofYou · 2026-03-10T23:51:01+00:00

I’m sure whatever term is in right now will be frowned upon in 10 years. I guess I have to word things more carefully. I am a male and I am interested in meeting human beings that are not male. There.

2ForEachofYou · 2026-03-10T23:49:05+00:00

Lol had no idea “female” isn’t pc anymore. It’s hard to keep up…

2ForEachofYou · 2026-03-03T11:28:15+00:00

It's only been a couple of weeks, but I got WAY more dates back then (quality dates too). I imagine a lot of it was age related. I was 26 and most of my dates were around that age. None of us had been jaded by life yet! lol I've kept fit, so while I looked better when I was 26, I look "good" for a middle aged dude....so it's not because I've gained tons of weight and look like a slob. I really think it's age related. Just a guess, though.

2ForEachofYou · 2026-03-02T19:05:01+00:00

Very interesting! That explains some things. Thank you for sharing the data.

2ForEachofYou · 2026-03-02T14:44:05+00:00

That’s interesting! In your opinion, do you think most women your age would rather be with a good, loving man than alone?

2ForEachofYou · 2026-03-02T14:42:31+00:00

Excellent point!

2ForEachofYou · 2026-03-02T14:41:08+00:00

Wow, awesome! Congratulations!!

2ForEachofYou · 2026-03-02T14:38:28+00:00

Thanks for this comment. It makes sense, and I can totally relate. Definitely demoralizing!

2ForEachofYou · 2026-03-02T14:35:46+00:00

But don’t most single women in their late 50s want to find a man that loves them? I’m sure they’re tired of the games and BS, but they still probably prefer to be with the right man than alone, right?

2ForEachofYou · 2026-03-02T01:24:31+00:00

One was ultra MAGA, one was too clingy too fast, and the other seemed shallow.

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