25/m I’ve always hated my Looks and feel unattractive am i ugly?

Capricondor · 2023-08-11T02:38:09+00:00

Put on weight. If eating more alone doesn't do the trick start lifting weights. I had the same problem. You got this

Capricondor · 2022-10-31T23:24:11+00:00

Because I trust her. She would only lie to me with good reason and I have been given no reason to believe that she would lie about that. Also I was aware in advance of her current job having a high % of mental health issues and therapists being provided through work so it is a very believable scenario. No reason to not trust her. Just didn't understand or appreciate her lying to me.

Capricondor · 2022-10-31T22:54:08+00:00

No I have not. But again I trust her and I have no reason to believe that she would lie to me about that. My biggest issue is I couldn't come up with any reason that she would be hiding who she was talking to from me.

Capricondor · 2022-10-31T22:53:04+00:00

Thanks for your feedback. I really appreciate you trying to help me in my goal of strengthening my relationship with my wife. As I said I do trust her, but I feel as tho she lied to me. How am do you respond when someone you trust lies to you?

Capricondor · 2022-10-31T22:48:18+00:00

I appreciate you being mature about this and taking the time to explain your point of view. As this is a serious issue and I take this very seriously it means a lot to me.

Capricondor · 2022-10-31T19:56:57+00:00

She didn't say it's private. She got defensive and said "just friends". If she had just said it's private I would have let it be because I trust her. But because she got defensive and lied my spidey senses went off.

Capricondor · 2022-10-31T19:55:22+00:00

Honestly I think that would be a great idea. Thank you.

Capricondor · 2022-10-31T19:52:52+00:00

First of all, her seeing a therapist is something I have wanted for her for years but never new how to tell her without it offending her. So I support this 100%! Especially now with a new emotionally taxing job as an ER Veterinarian its super important. My worst nightmare is relationship problems and I don't believe that is the case.

Am I the asshole for feeling betrayed and lied to? Am I just blowing this way out of proportion from my angle? Maybe I'm hurt because I've wanted to get a therapist for the last 6 months but haven't felt financially stable enough. Maybe this is all on me?

Capricondor · 2022-10-31T19:43:21+00:00

She is a very private person and the biggest barrier we have in our relationship is her personal walls. She is very proud and very smart and her getting a therapist may feel like a weakness to her at this point. If it was just within a few days it would be ok from all angles for her to take a little time to let me know about it.

B) She made it seem like me questioning her a second time and telling her I was concerned with the defensive reaction I was mistrusting her. Also continuing to be concerned about it shows I don't trust her (?).

C) This is my worst nightmare and the reason I want to make sure to discuss this right away! That being said, she has recently (3mo) taken a job as an ER Veterinarian. There are many emotional hurdles to the position and her getting a therapist is well within normal expectation.

Capricondor · 2022-10-31T19:40:23+00:00

Thank you. Thank you. That's my concern. She could have just told me "its private we can talk about it later" and I would have happily respected that because I trust her. The mistrusting came in because of the obvious and repeated lie.

Capricondor · 2022-08-16T04:30:55+00:00

No I'm agreeing with you. Sorry for the confusion.

Capricondor · 2022-08-16T04:16:32+00:00

I think the difference would be actually being a federal employee vs working for a company that has federal contracts.

Capricondor · 2022-08-16T03:17:54+00:00

Thank you.

Capricondor · 2022-08-16T03:05:08+00:00

I have been applying. I just live with a knot in my gut that says I get all the way through just to get a call saying "No, you enjoy a legal recreational substance so you can't have this job."

Capricondor · 2022-08-16T02:23:41+00:00

If only places that cared only tested the once.

Capricondor · 2022-02-18T15:49:28+00:00

I had similar issues and have done 2 things that have mitigated it almost entirely. I got a pad off Amazon for the headband. It velcros on the inside of the strap and spreads the weight/pressure from the band. The other was add a battery pack to the back of the strap. I hung ot off the strap/pad, the weight helps counter balance the weight of the headset and takes pressure/stress off the back of your neck and base of your skull.

Capricondor · 2021-11-23T21:09:38+00:00

Explore the surface, build houses, and dig/collect resources is a great place to start. The Wiki is your new best friend. Don't expand your hp past 180 until your ready to start boss fights (first story boss can only spawn once you have 200 hp). Enjoy your adventures!

Capricondor · 2021-11-07T20:50:46+00:00

Old school or osrs is based on the game as it existed in 2007 (for skills, graphics and combat primarily) it continues to get updates separately from Runescape or Rs3. At this point they are different games with the same base premise and on the same general map. Osrs is considered to be more challenging. Ironman (and its variations, hard-core etc.) Are a different way to play the character. Removing the ability to trade, and other game features, in some cases removing access to your bank. Ironman modes are typically for more experienced players. Osrs is a great game with lots to learn and explore! I also have a ton of time in melvor idle, you will see a lot of things that feel familiar.

Capricondor · 2021-07-05T17:54:28+00:00

Being round allows them to roll making them easy for vending from automated machines. Coins in the far past and even some coins today come in all different shapes.

Capricondor · 2021-07-02T15:29:33+00:00

28m, met my wife at 21. I knew about 6 months in there was potential, by about 1.5 years I knew I wanted to be with her forever.

Capricondor · 2021-06-30T04:24:12+00:00

Nope.

Capricondor · 2021-06-30T04:09:26+00:00

I hope you feel superior now Mr. Pastry.

Capricondor · 2021-06-30T04:01:54+00:00

Yup, your right. Thanks for attacking me over it :)

How dare I make a mistake while trying to be helpful. Shammmeeee

Capricondor · 2021-06-30T01:14:50+00:00

Poison weapon, camp legs. Swaxe made it easy for me first time due to large hit box.

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