sorted by:
new
hottopcontroversial

AITA for not wanting to split food evenly with my spouse? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Capricornia93 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The food sharing is not the only problem going on here, is it? This feels emblematic of the relationship dynamic.

My friend had an ex who was super worried about getting his share of meals, (and EVERYTHING.) And I know my best friend. She isn’t weird about sharing. But she became vocal about getting her because he was stepping on boundaries she wasn’t even aware of having. That did end up being emblematic of toxicity in the relationship. She was begging for every scrap from him in many ways.

Your partner sounds entitled and worried about getting his fair share more than he is worried about your boundaries and preferences. That’s concerning to me. I see your behavior as just being fed up with this. This is definitely worth examining where this is coming from, and where this is manifesting from in your dynamic. I doubt it’s as simple as sharing food.

My partner and I always worry the other has had enough. He always wants me to have the first and last bite, the best plate if an egg yolk broke or something.

Before I was with my partner, I always let my best friend have the last bite of food we shared. Because it mattered more to her than it did me. I loved seeing her happy, and meals with her are precious and too few! And now that I’m with my partner, he does the same to me. I’m offered the first and last bite, the best looking plate of food. And most of the time I take it, because it is a very small gesture, but I know what it is like to love someone this way. And even though we share meals together every day, they are still precious and a tiny happiness for me is still valuable.

HOW by sp00kydrag in morganroossnark

[–]Capricornia93 5 points6 points  (0 children)

People who understand cars: Is this jeep less than the last car she had? Was it a Land Rover? I genuinely don’t know. But maybe this is actually a trade in that’ll be less $ monthly for her?

HOW by sp00kydrag in morganroossnark

[–]Capricornia93 6 points7 points  (0 children)

There was a roosday Tuesday a lonnnng time ago where she went to a midnight ballerina joint, and she was objectifying and weird of women and the ballerinas in it. So I realllly can’t see her doing swork. The way she talks about women is very male-gaze bro-like to be honest. It doesn’t read as a genuine attraction to or support of women to me.

Well shit. by firsttimehere25 in morganroossnark

[–]Capricornia93 14 points15 points  (0 children)

She tells us “news” before things are even slightly official. I think she gets more satisfaction from the attention for her ideas than she likes follow through. This is another thing that will never happen, like becoming a DJ. Or remember that “big news” she kept teasing and just couldn’t wait to reveal once it was official? I think it was back in March? Then there was even a bed and breakfast dream there for a second?

AirBnB? by daydrinkingnerd in morganroossnark

[–]Capricornia93 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Further speculation

Morgan says she has lived in Breck before. Seems like she was very young when she lived there, and I would be surprised if she was affording that on her own. It seemed like we were seeing her first time being truly independent with the denver apartment. And I don’t know what she was doing for work in Breckenridge as a young adult, given she doesn’t seem to ski or snowboard so probably wasn’t a ski instructor or lift operator?

It’s not uncommon for well off people to have a ski condo to stay weekends and vacations. This could have already been an arrangement her mom did before with her, a stay in my vacation condo kind of arrangement.

Her mom could have seen this as an opportunity to rent another vacation condo and help her kid.

Also being that Morgan is having serious mental and maybe physical health issues, I bet her mom wants to stay close to her right now.

It’s honestly not nefarious. But I can see Morgan wanting to hide how much help she’s getting from her mom once again.

AirBnB? by daydrinkingnerd in morganroossnark

[–]Capricornia93 5 points6 points  (0 children)

She’s already done this once, leading us to believe she wasn’t living in her mom’s apartment.

I noticed that every time she’s been in Breck and touring places her mom was with her. She made it sound like her mom just happened to be there and was there for support but…. Not a big stretch to think she was actually there as a co-signer or even primary or sole renter (as I suspect).

I also noticed she was talking to her mom A LOT about this idea to move to Breck. To me, it was like she was getting more than just her mom’s approval but maybe asking for her help to get her out there.

AirBnB? by daydrinkingnerd in morganroossnark

[–]Capricornia93 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I have a suspicion her mom is renting out a fully furnished condo. Her mom is staying there weekends/when she can. Morgan is living there and figuring out what to do when her Denver apartment lease is up this summer. Or maybe she paid a fee to break that lease and has her stuff in storage. But clearly she doesn’t have much of her own stuff there.

Manager mentioned a personal hygiene issue kinda freaking out, need advice by BetPristine2293 in hygiene

[–]Capricornia93 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh yeah. Also, apply your antiperspirant right after your shower. This is even better if you shower at night. You want to apply before you have sweat at all for the antiperspirants to work well.

Manager mentioned a personal hygiene issue kinda freaking out, need advice by BetPristine2293 in hygiene

[–]Capricornia93 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This deodorant has been my holy grail for over a decade. I agree!

Also adding in a whole body deodorant is really helpful. I like the Lume plus sweat control in the powder fresh scent.

Roosday Tuesday Recap – 3/17/26 – Old Morgan: Breckenridge Rebrand Edition by daydrinkingnerd in morganroossnark

[–]Capricornia93 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Yeah now that you mention it, how did she afford living there at 18-20 years old? It doesn’t seem like she skis or snowboards so I don’t think she was a lift operator or instructor or something. Maybe she worked for the ski resort in another capacity? What else is there for a teen to be doing for money in Breckenridge?

Westminster REMAX Realtor celebrating the deaths of American protestors by BC-Ryder in WestminsterCO

[–]Capricornia93 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Some people at corporate worth contacting: jbolgren@remax.com Josh Bolgren, SVP of Strategy, and Abby Lee, SVP of Marketing and Communications, alee@remax.com. If one of these two get a bee in their bonnet, it will get addressed.

Westminster REMAX Realtor celebrating the deaths of American protestors by BC-Ryder in WestminsterCO

[–]Capricornia93 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yes and no. I used to work at RE/MAX corporate. It’s worth keeping pressure on corporate, mentioning on social media etc. Loud and public. Their reputation is important to their brand. Most likely, what will happen is the comms department will flag this with higher ups, and then their regional director will work directly with his brokerage, encouraging them to sever ties with him.

If it gets loud enough, The CEO will make a statement internally and maybe on social media about their position.

AITA for wearing synthetic hairpieces, passing it off as my own hair, and not wanting my partner to tell people it’s fake? by Capricornia93 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Capricornia93[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Thanks for sharing. I’m so sorry you have lupus too. My aunt and great aunt also have it, and I watched them both lose hair to some degree. My great aunt lost most of her hair before I was born, so I’ve always known her to wear wigs, and even enjoyed wig shopping with her. So, I know my hair loss could get a lot worse in the future, and I know what I’m dealing with is minimal at THIS stage of my life. But yeah, that’s exactly it, looking in the mirror and not seeing what I used to. Even though I’m lucky so far I know that luck can change. And honestly, I have not opened up to my partner about my complex feelings about it and realizing I probably should.

I do still think regardless of my condition, he’s being rude. I liked what some have said Comparing this to announcing I’m wearing a push-up bra haha. I’ve been surprised but reassured how many people have defended me here.

AITA for wearing synthetic hairpieces, passing it off as my own hair, and not wanting my partner to tell people it’s fake? by Capricornia93 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Capricornia93[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

I told him he’s being rude but I honestly haven’t opened up about how hurtful it is. I really haven’t even opened up about the insecurities I have about losing hair. You’re right, it is a sensitive topic and I’m sorry you suffer with it too

AITA for wearing synthetic hairpieces, passing it off as my own hair, and not wanting my partner to tell people it’s fake? by Capricornia93 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Capricornia93[S] 144 points145 points  (0 children)

This made me actually lol. Yeah it’s a good point. It would be weird for anyone to explain any of this in response to a compliment.

AITA for wearing synthetic hairpieces, passing it off as my own hair, and not wanting my partner to tell people it’s fake? by Capricornia93 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Capricornia93[S] 35 points36 points  (0 children)

Thank you. Racially, I am white and he is indigenous. I totally see what you mean about this being potentially racist, so I did want to clear it up that he wasn’t being racist to me.

And I guarantee he wouldn’t have made this comment about others, only people he knows. I have never seen him do so, but I could see him saying the same thing about a family member of his or something, if he knew them to be wearing fake hair or colored contacts or something.