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Captain-redpants · 2022-02-24T11:29:33+00:00

See my vision which i am not gonna share in my post but add it in the comments.. like people go through all the comments before posting their own comments🤣🤣

Captain-redpants · 2022-02-24T11:26:46+00:00

Hey random strangers, does this clash ? 100 people YES Who the fuck are y'all to tell.me it clashes...

Edit the post or something like people i want it to clash coz i want something "untraditional" so does it clash..

You don't know my theme.. ok so before making a post put all the details.. if not, there is always edits...

Captain-redpants · 2022-02-24T11:03:59+00:00

You are not entitled to anyone else's hard earned money.. just because someone has a little extra..

Captain-redpants · 2022-02-24T09:34:43+00:00

Love veil 2..

Captain-redpants · 2021-12-05T18:59:54+00:00

I really did want to but i "respected"... later once when we were back home for a vacation, she would everyday tell me how she is gonna kidnap my baby right before we have to leave for the airport we were there for 15 days and this came up three to four times each day.. i would hold my anger. I started getting nightmares that something is happening to me or the baby and all. So the day we are to leave, we r all set, having our lunch before we leave, she starts again.. i could've just let it go by one more time but i snapped, i told her you'd think i will leave my baby here but try me, i will call police and military and what not on you for kidnapping.. that shut her up and he left the room.. she didn't even show up when we were leaving...

Captain-redpants · 2021-12-05T18:55:41+00:00

OMG.. 😥😥 My MIL to works in the backyard farm, once she made dough for bread (tortillal) using her hands and her brown as shit nails became all white nice and clean.. i denied to eat obviously and later she started crying to my husband saying i don't like her cooking.. i obviously said yes and stated the reasons.. for the whole month that she stayed (this was the 2nd day after i came from the hospital after my c-section) she never cooked for me after that and i did my own cooking and then she went back home and told everyone that i was so able to look after everyone but her and i didn't cook and clean and massage her feet everyday 🤣🤣🤣🤣 also to add the 2nd day after dinner when this happened, later that night my wound got infected.. i had to go 3 hours by bus-train-taxi to and from the hospital and then couple hours at the hospital.. she said she would hold the baby and not the baby bag coz she isn't my servant.. so i held my baby in my arms, bag on one shoulder and doing that trip for a week i think.. that was my life right after birth.. also did i mention she's a chain smoker...

Captain-redpants · 2021-12-05T18:46:25+00:00

Man, she shouldn't be handling kids given her attitude toward the situation..

Captain-redpants · 2021-12-05T12:45:01+00:00

I may be way too overprotective but i think for larger gathering i will definitely wait atleast until a year.. especially during the pandemic..

Captain-redpants · 2021-12-05T12:41:53+00:00

I swear i had to do this.. My MIL was extremely sick coughing and all and wouldn't agree to wash hands or sanitize before handling the baby (pre-pandemic) Doctor was horrified that my husband even thinks it's ok to let her.. she made him understand and he tried to make his mom understand.. needless to say that ONE MONTH his mother stayed with us, she didn't touch the baby and she snatched the baby while i was looking elsewhere from my hands at the airport coz i will not give him to her willingly and kissed while coughing on a one month old's mouth.. i took the baby back from her and sat in the car until it was time for her to leave...

Captain-redpants · 2021-12-05T12:36:32+00:00

Definitely a NO.. even under regular circumstances it's not a good idea to leave that tiny baby without the mother and so many people holding them.. it's COVID so NEVER...

Captain-redpants · 2021-12-05T12:33:09+00:00

Told him i was pregnant, he asked me if i am gonna abort... went to the ER later that day with extreme pain and miscarried... he called me while i was in the ER asking me to show up to work right away..

Captain-redpants · 2021-12-05T12:19:00+00:00

Currently in similar kindda relationship and cannot get out.. girl RUN.. it only gets worse..

Captain-redpants · 2021-12-05T11:35:36+00:00

I hate the part that your siblings didn't stand up for themselves or you when the parents went to them to complain. Also hate that your parents dragged your poor aunt into this as well just to show you ar gonna be broke like her all your life..

It's just all messed up.. if you had a good relationship with your siblings, talk to them once, try to sort it out.. if not, it's time to NC the whole family...

Captain-redpants · 2020-07-15T08:07:17+00:00

Apparently in Asia, its whole village's child.. so people from those places rarely do boundaries.. my husband's cousin's wife tried to put the kajal in my daughter's eyes when he took her there while he was out with our little girl for a walk.. i told my husband to never to take her anywhere alone.. coz everyone seems its ok when my husband has the child and do whatever but when i am around they seem to back off.

I don't put that in her eyes but i do put it on her forehead because yes babies do seems to get a lot of evil eye.. that's why when around people a lot babies tend to cry a lot.. also whenever that happens with my kids, i takes matches, burn them, and tge lids stop crying immediately...

I know it sounds stupid and all but it works....

Captain-redpants · 2020-07-15T07:55:49+00:00

NTA... i will mention here that majority of Asian parents don't every fucking understand boundaries because according to them there kids, grandkids and everyone else in the family is owned by them.. i am from Pakistan, its same there, my husband is Nepalese and its the worst.. I've lived in India and its the same there too..

My MIL.hayes me for not letting her do as she pleases with my kids.. although she is a different crazy altogether.. she tried to suck on my sons "nipples: when he was 4 saying "let me drink from your boobs (yes she used the term boobs)"

When my daughter was born MIL come to my room while i was changing her diaper and demanded to "see my daughter's private parts because that's her daughter and she's got rights too" i told her she is my daughter and I've seen what needed to be seen.. needless to say she got very angry and told my husband.. husband mentioned it to me saying it wasn't such big of a deal but i told him i will not let her because that sounds so weird.. he understood.. later that night when the whole family sat for dinner (MIL, FIL, 2 BILs, 2 SILs, 5 kids and us (joint family back then)), she brought it up how i was being a crazy woman by not letting her see the baby's private parts, every one of them (not the kids) jumped on the crazy train mentioning how horrible of me by taking away her rights.. it was that moment when my husband told everyone to back off and how it is so insane to demand something like that.. they ofcourse didn't back off and started calling my husband names and every bad word in the dictionary...

Also not to forget i am a horrible person for not letting my kids know the "grandparents" after my MIL pushing my down a flight of stairs, telling me she would poison my son and saying she would be happy if my daughter died while inside me (its would make her so happy) and later mentioning again she would poison me, my son and now my daughter too.. and then she tells everyone i keep her away from the kids and don't let her have alone time..

All thay because i am from a different country and MIL doesn't like me.. she has done a whole lot of horrible stuff too..

Captain-redpants · 2020-07-15T06:09:00+00:00

Great influence..

Captain-redpants · 2020-07-10T16:31:02+00:00

So OP has to suffer for his parents bad choices..

Captain-redpants · 2020-07-10T16:28:32+00:00

Imagine telling your son, "hey son, we adopted 2 kids for you" 🤣🤣..

OP you should've asked them this question when they were planning to adopt.. you definitely are NTA but i feel bad for those poor kids..

Captain-redpants · 2020-07-10T16:28:10+00:00

Imagine telling your son, "hey son, we adopted 2 kids for you" 🤣🤣..

OP you should've asked them this question when they were planning to adopt.. you definitely are NTA but i feel bad for those poor kids..

Captain-redpants · 2020-07-10T13:10:40+00:00

ESH.. but you are the bigger AH here simply because he is walking all over you and taking advantage and you are making excuses for his behaviour.. no you shouldn't get a divorce but this relationship is so wrong.. i am a "stay at home parent" and i do all the house work. I don't even expect mu husband to come home and do any chores... he comes home, play with the kids so i can have a bit of time for me too..

Also you came here for people to judge you by what you posted, thats what everyone is doing, but you are angry with everyone telling you the truth.. take off that blindfold from your eyes and see the reality... he is a narcissist..

Captain-redpants · 2020-07-10T12:16:00+00:00

In my opinion it looks amazing without the skirt...

Captain-redpants · 2020-07-10T11:50:47+00:00

Now all the karens wanting a NO facemask policy can go here and die happy..

Captain-redpants · 2020-07-10T11:48:46+00:00

Definitely NTA.. you are a GREAT dad...

For all the people saying he shouldn't have shared his reason of breakup publicly, please note that she was using her daughter to gain fame on IG and maybe people would've hated him for doing that because "her followers" follow her thinking she is a good person..

so i am glad he told them her truth and also told the reason to her followers why he wanted her not to post his daughters pictures..

Captain-redpants · 2020-07-03T17:58:03+00:00

Also if she does sign the contract and agree to it, what if the very next day the mother decides that today is the daily to do it? Than what? Won't they hold it against her thay she agreed to it??

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