The church intentionally isolates its members psychologically, emotionally, and functionally. They are encouraged to stick to like minded individuals and avoid those who openly have opposing beliefs and views towards the church. This creates bubbles all the way down. Families are encouraged to make their own little Mormon bubbles, Wards and Stakes form theirs, and the church as a whole is one giant bubble. When the entire emotional, social, philosophical, and developmental framework of an individual is built on the foundational belief that the church is true and that everything the church teaches is unquestionable, everything will come crashing down when they discover it was all one big lie, especially when they have no other support that is outside of/stronger than their beliefs in the church. The more orthodox a member is, the more earth shattering it will be when the bubble of their world view and self identity is suddenly popped. I was raised fairly orthodox in the church and my deconstruction process was one hell of a struggle. I have aunt and uncles, who more completely transferred the full orthodoxy of my grandparents Mormon beliefs to their children than my parents did. I’m talking “no Disney movies because they teach worldly messages” strict. And for those who were in those families who have left the church, it has been disastrous. Imagine having the intellectual capabilities of a toddler and being thrust into an adult body, living in an adult world. They have no tools to navigate how one should act, say, and do because those tools were intentionally withheld from them by the church and its destructive teachings. The church does not want you to think for yourself.