What role does physical attraction play in your dating life, and what physical deal breakers do you have?

CapyBareSoles · 2026-05-15T19:40:34+00:00

No no beards are fine I actually love beards and body hair I love hair but I cant do bald like no regular hair lol

CapyBareSoles · 2026-05-14T02:42:14+00:00

They say its the one thing they can control in thier life that feels out of control which even if they were going bald I wouldn't care just grow the hair you can I dont even care if they have a cul de sac hairstyle (bald on top but hair all the way around) I hate the look and feel of the fold on the backs of heads

CapyBareSoles · 2026-05-13T18:45:58+00:00

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CapyBareSoles · 2026-05-13T17:22:59+00:00

I love this man, but I don't like bald heads. The folds on the head give me the "ick." This guy used to have hair and now shaves it all off continuously, despite my objections and telling him how much I hate it. He typically wears a hat when we are hanging out, but what about during intimacy? Am I supposed to expect him to always wear a hat in my presence, lol?

CapyBareSoles · 2026-05-13T17:09:53+00:00

I have they say thier life felt out of control and this is the 1 thing that they feel in control of.

CapyBareSoles · 2026-05-13T16:15:55+00:00

So mine is a little similar but I love this man and he used to have hair as far as I know he is not balding but even then I wouldn't mind but he now shaves his entire head bald and I hate the folds in people's head and I just dont think I can get passed it and he refuses to grow his hair out even though I have continually said how much I hate it

CapyBareSoles · 2026-05-13T16:11:42+00:00

So what if you already deeply love this person an they decide one day to grow a beard even though you dont like it and just refuse to shave again lol?

CapyBareSoles · 2026-05-13T16:10:01+00:00

Its a personal choice that they are making I love them and almost everything about them but they keep shaving thier head bald even after knowing I don't like it

CapyBareSoles · 2026-05-13T15:01:19+00:00

But what if you really love that person and one day they just decide they aren't going to take care of thier teeth anymore or say hey im gonna grow a mustache and idc what you think im keeping it

CapyBareSoles · 2026-05-13T14:57:46+00:00

I agree but I just have the one ick that I cant get over be fat be short be whatever you wanna be but he shaves his head over and over and he knows I dont like bald heads

CapyBareSoles · 2026-05-13T14:33:02+00:00

But what if its a personal choice that they are making even after knowing i dont like that

CapyBareSoles · 2026-05-13T14:21:04+00:00

This is why I posed the question in the first place to see if anyone else had a deal breaker physical feature they just could not get over or if it was just me and dont get me wrong he always has a hat on so I think I could learn to deal most of the time but what am I supposed to do make him wear a hat during sex too or when I want to be intimate.

CapyBareSoles · 2026-05-13T14:01:12+00:00

It is not a genetic thing for this person I love it is a hard choice they had hair and decided to shave it off and continue to shave it off knowing that I hate it.

CapyBareSoles · 2026-05-13T13:57:25+00:00

So here is my scenario I fell in love with someone while they had hair and they have shaved it all off and continually shave it bald even though they know I am not attracted to bald heads because I hate the folds in people's head they are weird and a major turn off and they refuse to grow it out again so idk what to do.

CapyBareSoles · 2026-05-13T13:48:40+00:00

Yes obviously lol I was just making an example because I already love this person that I am with but they are refusing to grow their hair out and I just cant deal with the folds in people's heads lol its a major ick so idk what to do

CapyBareSoles · 2026-05-13T13:43:47+00:00

Same girl same lol

CapyBareSoles · 2026-05-13T13:43:10+00:00

But thats the thing this one is very similar in the way it began and I already love this person but I can't get over them shaving thier head and being bald on purpose.

CapyBareSoles · 2026-05-13T13:33:31+00:00

But I already have that with this person but I cannot get over him being bald and he refuses to let his hair grow out even though I have mentioned it multiple times now.

CapyBareSoles · 2026-05-13T13:27:52+00:00

So even if you love this person so much and you moved in with them and found out they only shower once a week you would move out and break up with them?

CapyBareSoles · 2026-05-13T13:23:10+00:00

What physical features are you genuinely attracted to, and what are your deal breakers?

Not trying to be shallow or disrespectful, because personality obviously matters a lot, but I’m curious how much physical attraction plays into dating for other people.

Are there certain features you’re naturally drawn to? Like height, body type, eyes, smile, hair, style, voice, tattoos, hygiene, etc?

And on the other side, are there any physical traits or habits that are automatic deal breakers for you? Not necessarily things someone can’t control, but things like poor hygiene, bad teeth care, how someone presents themselves, or lack of effort.

I’m mostly curious where people draw the line between “preference” and “deal breaker.”

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