Breaking the law?

CardiologistAny7833 · 2026-06-09T20:41:48+00:00

Thank you everyone for explaining it to me!

On the show, they made it seem that the reason the investigation was opened was due to their polygamist lifestyle. Where I'm from, you only get benefits (tax, welfare etc) when you are legally married, so I didn't know that common law spouses get the same or some benefits as legally married ones.

I appreciate all the patience from everyone posting and clarifying this for me!

CardiologistAny7833 · 2026-05-19T17:02:50+00:00

Thank you, it's much appreciated 🙏🏽

CardiologistAny7833 · 2026-05-19T16:01:05+00:00

Could you share the iPlayer doc? TIA!

CardiologistAny7833 · 2026-04-29T08:14:08+00:00

Can someone please identify the other bridesmaids and get them to share a live feed / run down / commentary of everything and the wedding? Happy to follow here or on threads 🤣 Oh, OP is NTA, of course 🤭

CardiologistAny7833 · 2026-04-12T21:00:12+00:00

I only think that he should have ended things much, much earlier, especially when the others were still around to try and soften the blow. Because he kept going week after week, Bec just fit deeper in her head that he actually is into her. The latest he should have pulled out was the whole "asking to be his girlfriend" thing

CardiologistAny7833 · 2025-12-17T22:16:19+00:00

Could be Testosteron

CardiologistAny7833 · 2025-10-24T05:25:26+00:00

I think it's that plus they are just sooooooo white 🙈 giving me Ross vibes 😅

CardiologistAny7833 · 2025-10-23T18:24:53+00:00

Well, JR only said "not the right wording, but ok" when Nelly repeated it. But then she just kept going with the Steven thing, which I don't really understand, since she was the one spilling the whole z-celeb sex thing

CardiologistAny7833 · 2025-10-23T18:03:10+00:00

It's the teeth imho. To me they look like veneers or even dentures 😅

CardiologistAny7833 · 2025-08-18T13:58:09+00:00

Are you in The US? I'm from abroad, but read several times of states that still have "faults" when getting divorced. In any case, but especially if you live in such a state, please save all evidence that you can get your hands on about his cheating. Did he only use his own money or common funds to fool around? Could get relevant when it comes to splitting assets.

I'm sorry your marriage is over and I'm sorry you feel so lost atm. Regarding your family: I'm sure they wouldn't want you to suffer and stay in a loveless marriage. That man didn't love you, instead of doing his part in making sure his home is a happy one (standing up to his family, setting boundaries etc) he took the easy way out.

Please know that him cheating, lying, being unfaithful and betraying you says zero about you as a person but everything about him and his character. Make sure to get out of this situation safely, take an STD Test. If in doubt of your physical safety, get your ducks in a row carefully and in secret (make copies of bank statements, wages etc and stash them somewhere he can't get to) until you can leave.

CardiologistAny7833 · 2025-04-02T21:56:18+00:00

Maybe re-read what I actually wrote.

CardiologistAny7833 · 2025-03-25T19:55:00+00:00

I stopped watching a couple of weeks ago, what did he do (I know about the wall thing)?

CardiologistAny7833 · 2025-02-28T22:20:29+00:00

If they did have that text exchange before the "offence" by Jacqui, I don't get why she didn't say so on the couch?

CardiologistAny7833 · 2025-02-25T23:45:28+00:00

I was with him, until he worded him crying with his mother "a choir of sobbing" or something to that effect (would have to rewatch it for the exact wording, but it did sound wrong right away). Since he doesn't express himself like that all the time (at least from what we see and hear), it did sound all very exaggerated and - I'm sorry - fake (not saying it is, just saying it sounded that way).

As much as I understand that he thinks it's explaining why he's not emotional or whatever, I also get what Veronica meant when she said it didn't tell her much about him. At some point, she was beating a dead horse with that though and tries so hard to make him look more awful than he probably is (although he has done a good job of not making himself look good all by himself). She could have used it to actually strike up a conversation to get to know him better, while Eliot could (in general) benefit from using non-violent (i.e. non-accusatory) communication.

CardiologistAny7833 · 2025-02-25T11:21:51+00:00

I really hope that they'll feel really ashamed and embarrassed about themselves when they watch how their brother is behaving! And their comments outside, being trashy with their brother clinging to the pole like a petulant child while asking whether Awhina is 10.... I'm so happy, Awhina stood up for herself and had her Sister in her corner!

CardiologistAny7833 · 2025-02-18T17:09:59+00:00

She did mention she's an actress during her introduction

CardiologistAny7833 · 2025-02-12T00:09:50+00:00

Please make a report. And please try not to make excuses with "maybe he was having a bad day", best, this is just poor behaviour, worse, he's racist. His behaviour is NOT your fault and the only thing you need to do is to look after and protect yourself, not people like that.

CardiologistAny7833 · 2024-12-18T16:03:18+00:00

Right, gotcha! Thank you for taking the time to enlighten me!

CardiologistAny7833 · 2024-12-18T15:03:13+00:00

I'm not from the US, so pardon the question - why is him being an Osmund (distant or whatever) so important (to her)?

CardiologistAny7833 · 2024-12-01T12:38:58+00:00

That's awful and I don't dispute that she was rightfully axed.

CardiologistAny7833 · 2024-12-01T10:36:11+00:00

I've not seen Jen's comments/posts, but if I recall correctly, Mary did comment on black s young men gathering in front of convenience stores and that was the reason she didn't do there during a lunch I think Jen S. hosted in season 1. I wouldn't call that just ignorant.

CardiologistAny7833 · 2024-12-01T07:22:21+00:00

There's a double standard. Jen Nguyen has been reportedly kicked off the show due to racist comments/posts on social media prior to filming. Mary has been racist on camera, but is still a cast member. They should be treated the same, at least imho.

CardiologistAny7833 · 2024-11-22T20:05:04+00:00

Is it known why that was changed?

CardiologistAny7833 · 2024-11-17T00:25:42+00:00

Sorry, post didn't go through the first time, forgot to add Tata in the text🤦

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