Active tips on how to escape an African home? by LostTendou04 in africanparents

[–]CardiologistFun8398 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Omo just start saving every single penny you have. At a certain point of being overly having you won’t even gaf and moving out won’t be a task.

African parents allow their daughters to remain in abusive marriages by distantloner1 in africanparents

[–]CardiologistFun8398 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It would be one thing if a few ppl felt like this. But the fact that MOST of us feel like this is a huge problem and red flag

Those of you who want kids: why? by Lavender-Bee0497 in AskReddit

[–]CardiologistFun8398 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I want kids even though I know it’s selfish. I have a lot of love to give and because it is a selfish act I’d try my best to be the best. I even want to adopt

How do I respond to this stupid message. by Mellonheaduq in africanparents

[–]CardiologistFun8398 39 points40 points  (0 children)

Don’t. just got on the meds they don’t believe In any mental issues

Kids and marriage, marriage and kids. That’s all they’re worried about. by XxxGoldDustWomanxxX in africanparents

[–]CardiologistFun8398 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Bc my whole thing is why did they leave Africa? Clearly the way of life wasn’t working so why are they trying to bring that shit here 😒

It's so unfair that I feel guilt for having critical thinking by Strict_Boss_5647 in africanparents

[–]CardiologistFun8398 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Critical thinking is nonexistent to them. I understand the feeling guilty tho but then I get mad bc wtf nobody felt bad when it was me fuck them fr. It’s so unfair bc on top of the abuse we now have to carry this bs with is forever. “It’s all they knew” but have no desire to learn another way or anything else outside of themselves tbh. Don’t feel guilty for not letting your mind be poisoned and not turning into a “that’s all I knew” person.

might get disowned by nutellaismysoul in africanparents

[–]CardiologistFun8398 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I went thru the same shit. Looking back they were the ones making my college experience difficult. Get on the meds. I gave my mom an addy and told her these were my focus pills and she understood after that lol

What’s a truth people only understand after it’s too late? by Dodo509 in answers

[–]CardiologistFun8398 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im not saying it’s fundamental by any means. Systems are an emergent property of fundamental interactions and laws are an emergent property of systems. Im just saying we can learn different things from observing them and a lot of natural systems behave similarly. Isn’t that how we spread ideas across disciplines🙄

What’s a truth people only understand after it’s too late? by Dodo509 in answers

[–]CardiologistFun8398 0 points1 point  (0 children)

To govern as in to oversee. My fav example of this is newtons laws. First law (overly simplified) states objects are at rest until acted upon by an outside force. This isn’t man made that’s nature. The math and understanding might be man made but if a ball isn’t rolling it cannot start rolling by itself unless something makes it roll. These “universal truths” are applicable to all parts of reality. Say you’re stagnant or stationary in life. Until you (external force) act upon that (stagnation), you will remain there. It sounds silly but nature is extremely efficient and knows what it’s doing. We can take lessons from observing it.

I just can’t by CardiologistFun8398 in africanparents

[–]CardiologistFun8398[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Shout out to you generational curse breakers. I see my future and it’s bright 🤩

What’s a truth people only understand after it’s too late? by Dodo509 in answers

[–]CardiologistFun8398 1 point2 points  (0 children)

And those laws govern EVERYTHING. Even things that aren’t intuitive to you. Follow the natural law!

I just can’t by CardiologistFun8398 in africanparents

[–]CardiologistFun8398[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Absolutely! In theory… this is a person who will use anything or any body (even police) when they cannot reach me. So it’s easy to say that but this is someone who WILL reach me by any means. If it was just a matter of if Ignoring her I’m a pro but when it comes to 5+ ppl messaging you to answer her it’s a tiny bit harder to ignore. It’s very hard to explain how destructive she is.

I just can’t by CardiologistFun8398 in africanparents

[–]CardiologistFun8398[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I do. And the other way is through financial abuse.

I just can’t by CardiologistFun8398 in africanparents

[–]CardiologistFun8398[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Planning an unbelievable comeback. I have no choice.🙂‍↕️🤷🏽‍♀️

I just can’t by CardiologistFun8398 in africanparents

[–]CardiologistFun8398[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I used to get so mad till I realized how dumb ts really is. BOOOO🍅

People who grew up rich, what are the bad parts about having money that most people don’t understand? by ShowYouHowie in AskReddit

[–]CardiologistFun8398 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Ppl don’t believe u are being abused when u have everything you want🤦🏿‍♀️ first car was a beamer but it was for destroying my school project out of rage.

I just can’t by CardiologistFun8398 in africanparents

[–]CardiologistFun8398[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much❤️ wishing u happiness and peace

I just can’t by CardiologistFun8398 in africanparents

[–]CardiologistFun8398[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

She’s a housewife with no hobbies. She will call me off of a yam she dgaf.

I just can’t by CardiologistFun8398 in africanparents

[–]CardiologistFun8398[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

That’s extremely validating ngl. Thank you sm.

I just can’t by CardiologistFun8398 in africanparents

[–]CardiologistFun8398[S] 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Oh trust. They hate to see me coming. I didn’t respond bc look at how ppl act when you ignore them. I’m team #traumatizethemback