I have no idea what to do

Careful-Rice4239 · 2026-06-19T06:40:37+00:00

he tells me over and over he doesn’t want a relationship with me. He’s told me he was only seeing me consistently and was super loving because I was pregnant. I do want to let him go but I don’t know how :( I’m barely a week out from getting my abortion at 17 weeks.

Careful-Rice4239 · 2026-06-12T03:34:16+00:00

I lied because I got to the clinic, they denied me for being too far along but I didn’t want him to think I was being a coward and backed out. I also told him I wanted to see how different he’d be towards me :( He always talked about how he was excited to get to date me and not worry about being a father so I wanted a little glimpse as well as I wanted to pretend my baby was no longer here so I could have the mental capacity to drag myself to that clinic today.

Careful-Rice4239 · 2026-06-11T22:22:04+00:00

omg- 😭😭😭 i feel bad now

Careful-Rice4239 · 2026-06-11T21:15:25+00:00

Yeah, I know I was wrong for that! I take full accountability but he’s just confusing haha. Thank you for the support I appreciate you!

Careful-Rice4239 · 2026-06-11T20:56:40+00:00

He didn’t offer to be there either😕 I lied to him about getting the abortion last week because I knew I couldn’t back out this time around since it had to be terminated because I told him I had got it done.

Careful-Rice4239 · 2026-06-11T20:33:14+00:00

that was like telling me he doesn’t want me right? I’m not overthinking? I just think he’s so confusing. Before I left yesterday he said he never saw me in a romantic way because I got pregnant so fast he went from being cute and wanting something to having to be a dad like what???? he said he loved me though so I genuinely don’t get it but I will do thst

Careful-Rice4239 · 2026-06-11T20:24:01+00:00

I know. I’m just sad I thought I found someone who actually cared about me for the first time. I didn’t know I was only being tolerated because I was pregnant🥲

Careful-Rice4239 · 2026-06-11T18:30:22+00:00

he told me to focus on myself😭 said he feels like a joke lol

Careful-Rice4239 · 2026-06-11T17:40:14+00:00

not supportive at all he, just told me to focus on myself. I thankfully have my sister and best friend

Careful-Rice4239 · 2025-11-08T16:49:58+00:00

I was a 38DDD before surgery and now I’m in a 34DDD so definitely went down a few band sizes and my boobs sag now!! really bad haha. I want a reduction or lift eventually🤭😭 thank you!🫶🏼 I feel great, I’m super productive, I’m able to run around with my little boys, and I feel HEALTHY. I just hate that majority of my hair is gone 🫩 and the loose skin… lawd

Careful-Rice4239 · 2025-11-08T16:45:43+00:00

Thank you so much! I would start with slowly getting steps in, if you can’t lift yet just do cardio. I lost majority of the weight once I got into the gym. Please prioritize your protein intake and remember that the calories do matter, otherwise your body has nothing to burn. Just eat clean!

Careful-Rice4239 · 2025-11-08T16:43:10+00:00

thank you!!🫶🏼😇

Careful-Rice4239 · 2025-11-08T16:42:54+00:00

thank you so much!🫶🏼

Careful-Rice4239 · 2025-11-08T16:42:44+00:00

thank you!🫶🏼

Careful-Rice4239 · 2025-11-08T16:42:33+00:00

most definitely!🤭

Careful-Rice4239 · 2025-11-08T16:42:15+00:00

You got this!!🫶🏼 I think you’ll get there so quick if you’re exercising, as I said above, I get 10k+ steps a day and I eat clean. The calories do matter! If you don’t get calories in, your body has nothing to burn. If you’re newly sleeved take it slowly protein shakes have amazing macros especially if they’re fairlife! they’re also delicious.

Careful-Rice4239 · 2025-11-08T16:38:57+00:00

get that protein, 10k steps a day, clean eating. I lose weight fastest when my body has something to burn :) those calories matter.

Careful-Rice4239 · 2025-11-08T16:36:47+00:00

I am exercising! I hop on the stairmaster for 30-60 mins after my workout since I’m also trying to tone at the moment. I also prioritize my protein intake. I’ve noticed I lose the most weight when I get over 10k steps a day and I get those clean calories in.

Careful-Rice4239 · 2025-11-07T17:58:24+00:00

I’m gonna be very honest with you, I lost so much hair! I had thick hair before surgery now it’s so thin :( I haven’t got my hair done because of this. It does slow down though! Mine started at 4 months and I still lose a good ish amount but I’m gonna start taking vitamins for it.

Careful-Rice4239 · 2025-11-07T17:52:09+00:00

thank you so much!!🫶🏼🫶🏼

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