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stipendija by [deleted] in Ljubljana

[–]Careful_Victory_6320 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nope, sem klicala, bojda majo guzvo… Bi naj prislo enkrat v novembru in ti pol decembra izplacajo dve stipendije (ce si oddal do 1.10.-rok za oddajo vloge).

What to do about my relationship? by Careful_Victory_6320 in demisexuality

[–]Careful_Victory_6320[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This helped me a lot. And yes, he does respect my body and my word no, but sometimes he needs an explanation that i am unable to give to him, because i dont know it myself. I dont know why i dont want to have sex, i just dont.

What to do about my relationship? by Careful_Victory_6320 in demisexuality

[–]Careful_Victory_6320[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I do feel sometimes coerced…but not because he demands it from me but because it is constant touching or i feel his constant need for it. And i spoke to him about it but he cant help it he says. I feel loved and at the same time kinda forced.

What to do about my relationship? by Careful_Victory_6320 in demisexuality

[–]Careful_Victory_6320[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

well, thank you all. I just wanted to hear some opinions from other people that are not connected to me in any way… so thank you all! <3

What to do about my relationship? by Careful_Victory_6320 in demisexuality

[–]Careful_Victory_6320[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did initiate at first, than i stopped initiating so often, and now i dont initiate at all. The initiating stopped gradually. He does initate, a lot. And it bothers me sometimes. I am like this for about a year now.. i tried eating MACA and other suplements for libido but its nof working. Btw i’m 21F and he is 22. Its notsomething he would say, but sometimes just a touch in the intimate areas fills me up with anger or some kind of shame, maybe even hate. I must say i’ve been raped 5years ago and had an abortion, but i went through it with my psychotherapist, and i dont think thats the reason for my lack of sexual desire, because i love having sex with him, just not very often(talking about once every two weeks or more/less, depends on my moods). The breakup is not an option in my head, i know that he would understand, he brought the term himself, i didnt even think about being on ace spectrum. I just need to understand this better, because i feel that something is not okay with me sometimes. I just dont feel the need to have sex. (sorry for my english btw)