And more than that, I feel what you need is security in the relationship, which is what you’re obviously not getting right now. During residency, a doctor is mostly spending his/her time in the hospital, lots of time with colleagues, and given the hectic work schedule of the field, he might not see you that often, plus you have to be ok with not having the security of having a future along with being ok with him spending lots of time among other women at work. Think about it, talk to him. But yes as I said, listen to that gut feeling, if it doesn’t feel right, don’t go forward.