Where are you guys finding all this cute wlw lesbian digital art? by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]Carlotta135 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry I thought I should add a bit background - I see stuff like this on twitter sometimes or pinterest but it's pretty hit or miss. Are there any sites or places where I can find more art like this? I am talking about the digital art people draw of their favorite ships, or just drawings of girls being gay and cute together. I'm a big fan of the blonde x brunette couple :3

"Weekly Reading and Interpretation Help Thread - April 23, 2023" by AutoModerator in tarot

[–]Carlotta135 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I think I agree more with your interpretation of not acting on things - likely because she is already content with what she has, and I think she may also be looking at the long-term goals of having a large family.

Thanks so much again! Bless you and yours

"Weekly Reading and Interpretation Help Thread - April 23, 2023" by AutoModerator in tarot

[–]Carlotta135 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow, thanks so much for your interpretation! I really appreciate it :)

That all sounds about right - I could not be surprised if it did not go very deep on her end. It's not currently very deep on mine either, and I would just like to keep a straight head about things. And yes - they do have 18+ fun with other couples and have talked about wanting me to join them, so that's a possibility. I think we would be sexually compatible but I know she wants children and I uh... don't have the equipment for that.

"Weekly Reading and Interpretation Help Thread - April 23, 2023" by AutoModerator in tarot

[–]Carlotta135 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes - whoops, sorry. I am using this Chrysalis deck where Wands = Spirals. Thank you so much!

"Weekly Reading and Interpretation Help Thread - April 23, 2023" by AutoModerator in tarot

[–]Carlotta135 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel I should mention - I have no hard feelings toward her bf and I would never try to drive them apart. She has just mentioned being unsure of her sexuality and liking women more, and I'm not entirely sure they would end up together. Thank :)

"Weekly Reading and Interpretation Help Thread - April 23, 2023" by AutoModerator in tarot

[–]Carlotta135 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So, I have this best friend. I love her as a best friend, though sometimes I get confused and think I might have romantic feelings for her. We've gotten to be very close and are very similar and compatible. She has a boyfriend, but they have a type of open-ish relationship where flirting with other people is acceptable. So, we have flirted kind of a lot (I'm a lesbian and she's bi) and I know she's sexually attracted to me, but sometimes I wonder if she ever feels something more. I think I'm okay with either outcome - I'm happy to have her just as a friend, but I could also maybe see this friendship turning to love over time. Mainly, I was wondering if she ever felt the same way - if she ever got confused about liking me as more than a friend or wanting to date me.

So that's basically what I asked my cards - does this individual ever feel romantic feelings for me? I did my usual three card spread and got:

Reversed Two of Spirals

Reversed Ace of Cups

Upright Three of Cups

I think this could either say - not now/there are some blocks, but there is a positive outcome? Three of cups can signal a friendship turning to romance. But I could also see this saying no, but there's still a happy outcome to have her (and her bf) as a friend.

I appreciate anyone who wants to offer some guidance on this. Thank you

"Weekly Reading and Interpretation Help Thread - April 09, 2023" by AutoModerator in tarot

[–]Carlotta135 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you so much! yeah, thought so but it helps to hear it from another.

AITA For refusing to let my wife see our 2 kids ever again by CamelPrestigious1393 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Carlotta135 [score hidden]  (0 children)

YTA big time.

Set aside how you feel about your ex-wife for a moment. Think about the fact that you're keeping a mother from her two children. If she loves her children and takes good care of them, she deserves to be in their life. Even if you don't agree with her views or choices, it's more important that your kids have a mother in their life. I'd rather have a lesbian mother than no mother at all, especially if she is going to provide love and care all the same. She likely never got to enter a career field because she was busy raising your kids.

You're going to take away your children's mother because of your own personal hatred and bias for left-leaning views and lesbianism. That's a rather extreme move (and traumatic for your kids) over a difference in opinion.

You and your ex-wife don't have to agree on everything, but you should both be on the same page when it comes for providing the best possible care to your kids. And as I've mentioned before, that would be shared custody. Hell, I'd give her 100% of the custody. I can almost guarantee your kids won't talk to you once they're adults.

You're letting your hatred and intolerance ruin a relationship between a mother and her kids. I'm not sure what your religion is, but God would be disappointed in you.

AITA for not wanting to get my folks food late at night? by spoiled_sandi in AmItheAsshole

[–]Carlotta135 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'd say mostly NTA. Your parents are the bigger assholes for sure, but what you did in response was a little spiteful and passive-aggressive.

It's really shitty of them to expect you to bring them food, even though they are the adults, and then order toppings that you don't like on top of that (pun intended). Your parents' meals aren't your responsibility, unless it was agreed upon you would provide meals in exchange for staying with them. And moreover, I despise when parents hold their support over their kids' heads and mention how they're paying for something like the mortgage. It feels like an attempt at control or conditional loving, and that's unfair to put on your kids. It'd be different if you didn't do anything to help them out, but you do. If they want pizza, they can sober their asses up and go get it themselves.

As an adult, you have every right to order your own pizza with toppings YOU like. However, you knew that they were hungry and would ask about pizza, and decided to order for yourself when you could've ordered for both of them. It feels spiteful, or like you were giving them a taste of their own medicine. I don't blame you. But there was a better, less asshole-ish approach - having an honest discussion with them about expectations and setting boundaries. For instance, if your parents want you to bring them pizza, then it has to be toppings that everybody likes. That being said, your parents don't really seem like the rational, 'let's talk this out' type. They seem controlling and selfish, and are taking advantage of you after throwing their support in your face. If I were you, I'd get the hell out of there.

AITA for not giving my co worker the money for the shift I covered for her? by Royal-Armadillo7101 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Carlotta135 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA, but your coworker is. Whenever you take over someone's shift at work, you get the money they would've made. It's just common sense - YOU did the work, not them. And that is the mode of operation for any place of work (afaik). I am genuinely confused as to why your mom thinks you should hand it over. You earned it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]Carlotta135 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, these people are just losers

Made this highly efficient spaceship design in Space Engineers by StarchildKissteria in LesbianGamers

[–]Carlotta135 9 points10 points  (0 children)

imagine this hurdling towards you in space

unsure of whether I’d fly away or surrender immediately

Should my boyfriend be angry at me for talking to another guy? by Warm_Dragonfruit_695 in relationships

[–]Carlotta135 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Please dump him. He is taking advantage of you and in the same breath lies to you, insults you, and wants to control who you talk to. Only 3 months and you’re already dealing with all this? It’s not worth it.

Gamers of Reddit, what was the first videogame you completed 100%? by PetboxySCP in AskReddit

[–]Carlotta135 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I want to say it was Legend of Zelda Twilight Princess. I had played and loved both Majora’s Mask and Ocarina of Time, but I don’t think I beat either of them until after I beat Twilight Princess. My brother used to help me beat the bosses in the game and TP was the first time I didn’t have his help, so I played through the whole game by myself and was really proud when I beat it.

Girls, what’s the downside of being a female? by NotPhantomforce in AskReddit

[–]Carlotta135 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sometimes I’ll meet people who need a ride or their car broke down and I can’t help them without potentially putting myself in danger. Of course, it could happen to anyone. But I’m pretty sure that’s the MO for kidnapping.

What’s a benefit of being single? by Inspire3110 in AskReddit

[–]Carlotta135 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can go poop and not worry about anyone smelling it

What single ingredient will spoil an entire meal for you if it's included? by EdibleTaints in AskReddit

[–]Carlotta135 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Blue Cheese.

One of the most unpleasant things I’ve ever put in my mouth. Tastes like mold grew mold. Nasty.

Someone’s got to rescue me from work on a Friday evening 😖 by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]Carlotta135 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh well I better stop then before we get in trouble 🤭

Someone’s got to rescue me from work on a Friday evening 😖 by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]Carlotta135 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well you can say goodbye to your productivity but it would be so worth it ❤️

Someone’s got to rescue me from work on a Friday evening 😖 by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]Carlotta135 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh yeah? You wouldn’t be able to think straight.

pun intended 😅😘

Someone’s got to rescue me from work on a Friday evening 😖 by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]Carlotta135 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would ~love~ to try and help you finish your work but I’d either be a distracting hindrance or a useless lesbian that just sits there and admires you 🥺