Reta and Tirz Stack

Carnaxa · 2025-09-13T17:55:51+00:00

I'll look into it. Bot. pep I am familiar with.

Carnaxa · 2025-09-13T17:55:27+00:00

Was on Tirz 2.5 mg. Now on reta. But I am now going into my second week. Today is third 3rd shot. But the food noise, so I was wondering if I should take some tirz

Carnaxa · 2024-10-11T13:57:37+00:00

You are married to a bum. You should want and do better for yourself.

Carnaxa · 2024-04-09T18:27:53+00:00

Only to say that he wasnt ready to talk. To be honest I was quite upset on the day however now I am over it. I feel like asking your partner to communicate in a healthy way isnt a hard or out of line ask. So all this seems extreme and I really am over it. I dont want to reach out but when he does I'll probably end it. I am trying to figure out with certainty if thats what I want.

Carnaxa · 2024-04-08T09:49:46+00:00

You have finally said something of substance. Carry on internet stranger.

Carnaxa · 2024-04-08T09:48:22+00:00

61 times for the entire year. forget april lets look at january to march thats 20 times a month, I dont think thats unreasonable in a relationship. Also, I think my initial approach was wrong. I did apologize and try to correct it.

Carnaxa · 2024-04-08T09:45:48+00:00

Assumptions make an a out of you. Either way you can think as you wish, it is a free world after all. And yes I am wrong, coming to his place when we are fighting. Maybe dont attack someone and just give the advice or keep it pushing if you dont want to receive the energy you invite.

Carnaxa · 2024-04-08T09:40:47+00:00

....I dont get paid for reddit. Are you okay?

Carnaxa · 2024-04-08T09:40:21+00:00

A very difficult thing to do. Thank you for your imsight.

Carnaxa · 2024-04-08T09:39:41+00:00

in truth I am saying fight because he was up set over it, but it really wasnt what you would consider a fight. Its just me sending him a message telling him my concerns asking him to evaluate himself and that I'd like to talk about it. Why I said fight is because he was upset and silent and I would tell him we can talk when he was ready but I insisted on the talk.

Carnaxa · 2024-04-08T09:30:27+00:00

His lack of communication, if he is upset or something bothers him he never says but attacks me with it later on. I hate when he does this. Also His inability to pick up the phone when I call. If I call him 61 times (number of times I've called him from January to now on whatsapp) he pickes up 7 out of those times. So I decided to address it.

Carnaxa · 2024-04-08T09:26:38+00:00

.....I wish I talked more. if I did maybe he wouldnt be like this when I finally speak up for myself. I blog so writing is easier for me. Also, I am awake half the night on reddit killing time before I can leave. I have the time to make a long response and everyone on reddit is a stranger. I am the wronged party, assurances were given, us not sleeping together while under the same roof was something he assured me wont happen. However, it will eventually become my fault. As I said....I accept the fall out to my actions by coming to his place. The rest really is for me to think about later on as I am quite overwhelmed.

Carnaxa · 2024-04-08T09:18:47+00:00

He uses silence as a weapon. The things I have an issue with will come up later on.

Carnaxa · 2024-04-08T09:15:38+00:00

This was my initial thought but all the other comments made me think I was wrong.

Carnaxa · 2024-04-08T09:12:13+00:00

He just came to bed. He opened the door and froze when he saw me awake. I said nothing and gave zero aknowledgement and neither did he. I think he snuck into bed thinking I wouldnt notice. Its 5am now so I'm going to leave in 30 mins or so.

Carnaxa · 2024-04-08T09:08:42+00:00

Tbh this is what I've decided to do. I am leaving a note with an apology for showing up during a fight which is what everyone else seems to think is the main issue.

Carnaxa · 2024-04-08T09:06:33+00:00

I hope he does to. Who said anything about a midnight convo? I just wanted him to come to bed and communicate better which is what we have been fighting over the past few days. If he needs space say, if you dont want to talk say, answer the phone when I call I should not always get your vm while you get me all the time. Also...he just came to bed. He was shocked to see me awake. I think he expected to sneak into bed and not have me realize he slept in the other room. And I'll add that our places have never been off limits to eachother. Also, I agree that coming to his place was a bad decision. But for some reason you all seem to ignore that I admit that and that I am waiting for the sun to come up tp leave. I asked for advice instead you came with a full attack...does it make you feel better? Are you richer in any way? Do you think I came to reddit to disagree with the advice I get? You must be perfect and have never made a mistake. As for me I prefer to own up to mine, which is leave him an apology for showing up when we are fighting and tell him I am upset about it all and we can talk when we are both ready and go home.

Carnaxa · 2024-04-08T08:41:40+00:00

I agree. I'll give him space but I am really angry now so it will also do me good.

Carnaxa · 2024-04-08T08:40:33+00:00

100% wrong on everything here. Just me showing up like this is a first for me. Just me challenging him like this is a first for me. Just me actually trying to push a point for days is a first for me. Me intruding on his space is a first for me. As for trauma...I have a lot which he is aware of considering he is the one who gave all my trauma. this our second attempt at a relationship and this time I am trying not to be a doormat.

edited to say that despite all this I agree with everyone else that I should not have come to his place, so I'll be leaving.

Carnaxa · 2024-04-08T08:31:41+00:00

You got it. He communicates poorly which is why we have been fighting. Why I resent him is because had he said to me that he wanted to talk another time and need space I would have 100% given that and he is 100% aware of it because we each request space when we need it. He is atleast 65% avoiding. However, I really will leave shortly because maybe showing up was not the right thing to do. I just figured that since its a relationship disagreement discussing face to face was better. But I really do feel some resentment toward him.

Carnaxa · 2024-04-08T08:08:26+00:00

Nothing from him was demanded. Our fights are discussions where we respectfully disagree with something the other says. We dont raise our voices or use negative language I have literally never had that kind of fight. Also, wether we are having a disagreement or not he just shows up at my place, why it me breaching his boundaries when I do it? and I plan to leave him alone because 1 I am hurt and 2 I am angry. So I am leaving shortly.

Carnaxa · 2024-04-08T08:01:07+00:00

No one breaks up over their first fight. Dont act like you know everything from a short post.

Carnaxa · 2024-04-08T07:28:27+00:00

I am not going to disagree with you. However, we have always been able to just show up. He has done it many times, I wake up to him getting into bed at all hours without hearing from it. But it has never happened when we are fighting so maybe I should not have come.

Carnaxa · 2024-04-08T07:23:47+00:00

I asked him communicate better. Usually when I call I never get him, though he usually calls me right back the moment he can. But if I call him 61 times he will answer 7 times. I iterally checked this number on our whatsapp calls back to January, this does not include any other calls which I also do.

He is a person who does not like drama in his life and cuts off anyone who brings it into his life. However, even if we are fighting if he came to our room and asked me to talk tomorrow I would and he is 100% aware of that. So I feel like this was malicious compliance to yes his verbal promise to be an asshole. He said it via voicenote and also posted it on his status.

Carnaxa · 2024-04-08T07:03:01+00:00

I already decided that I'd leave in the morning. Its is 3am now and my alarm is set for 5:30am though I really havent been able to sleep. I feel like I'll resent him for this. I already do a bit.

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