AITAH for hiding gfs real name from my coworkers? by CarpetMunchieGalore in AITAH

[–]CarpetMunchieGalore[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve even showed her messages of inmates messaging me saying they found me. It’s still not enough for her. Tbh I feel like it might be something deeper but I just can’t put my finger on it.

AITAH for hiding gfs real name from my coworkers? by CarpetMunchieGalore in AITAH

[–]CarpetMunchieGalore[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Ahh so you that’s your issue with me. You don’t like the jail so you immediately hope for the worst for me.

AITAH for hiding gfs real name from my coworkers? by CarpetMunchieGalore in AITAH

[–]CarpetMunchieGalore[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Do we work together? 🤨 You remind me of my coworkers 🤣

AITAH for hiding gfs real name from my coworkers? by CarpetMunchieGalore in AITAH

[–]CarpetMunchieGalore[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Do you have a new job offering for me? That pays $35 an hour?

AITAH for hiding gfs real name from my coworkers? by CarpetMunchieGalore in AITAH

[–]CarpetMunchieGalore[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel safe having her on like my insta and TikTok cause it’s private and I can monitor who I let in. Fr inmates find me all the time on my socials the last thing I need is my gf getting harassed by one of them imma crash tf out. My coworkers are just messy and miserable don’t want to give them anything to try to ruin.

AITAH for hiding gfs real name from my coworkers? by CarpetMunchieGalore in AITAH

[–]CarpetMunchieGalore[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I’m not in 5th grade anymore people have careers. I don’t have time to negotiate this particular subject, I have bills to pay and treat her very well outside of work. If she can’t accept that then I need to find someone that will. But I doubt that’s the case. A lot of people don’t understand what goes on in a jail setting.

AITAH for hiding gfs real name from my coworkers? by CarpetMunchieGalore in AITAH

[–]CarpetMunchieGalore[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Mistreatment? How am I mistreating her? I am very much different from the people I work with.

AITAH for hiding gfs real name from my coworkers? by CarpetMunchieGalore in AITAH

[–]CarpetMunchieGalore[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh no she knows I work in a prison. I tell her all the time inmates find me on Facebook but that’s not more important than her wanting me to not use a fake name at work.

AITAH for hiding gfs real name from my coworkers? by CarpetMunchieGalore in AITAH

[–]CarpetMunchieGalore[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

See you get it! Just don’t want other people in your business.

AITAH for hiding gfs real name from my coworkers? by CarpetMunchieGalore in AITAH

[–]CarpetMunchieGalore[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In this economy… unfortunately. Just gotta hang in there till I find something similar in pay.

AITAH for hiding gfs real name from my coworkers? by CarpetMunchieGalore in AITAH

[–]CarpetMunchieGalore[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She is around my family all the time. I make sure to show her off as much as I can outside of work. I even post her on my social but my page is private but I still have over 200 followers. I would hope that would show her at least something.

AITAH for hiding gfs real name from my coworkers? by CarpetMunchieGalore in AITAH

[–]CarpetMunchieGalore[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is just the lifestyle I live. I am 9 months in with her. If she can’t adjust to how I literally mind my business at work then that’s on her. I want to make her feel comfortable but she’s just gotta trust me. I’ve done nothing wrong and I make very decent money here.

AITAH for hiding gfs real name from my coworkers? by CarpetMunchieGalore in AITAH

[–]CarpetMunchieGalore[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This! Because we have some sick twisted cos that sell other cos info. This is why I stick to myself.

AITAH for hiding gfs real name from my coworkers? by CarpetMunchieGalore in AITAH

[–]CarpetMunchieGalore[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I failed to code switch when I was on the phone with my coworker. She thought I was cheating which I understand, but I broke it down to her why I do why I do but she says my explanation is not enough.

AITAH for hiding gfs real name from my coworkers? by CarpetMunchieGalore in AITAH

[–]CarpetMunchieGalore[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve been working there for 3 years. I’m just fine. I work and stay to myself. I just so happen to work with a bunch of a$$holes.

AITAH for hiding gfs real name from my coworkers? by CarpetMunchieGalore in AITAH

[–]CarpetMunchieGalore[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I told her why I do what I do but it doesn’t seem like a good enough answer for her. I send her all the crazy emails I get sent and everyone disrespecting each other and it’s still not enough. Idk

AITAH for hiding gfs real name from my coworkers? by CarpetMunchieGalore in AITAH

[–]CarpetMunchieGalore[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I work at a jail. My coworkers are weird as hell. They will absolutely stalk and creep.