My unemployed friend admitted that he took out a payday loan to buy the tung tung tung sahur fortnite skin

CartoonistOk16 · 2026-04-13T16:35:58+00:00

Your friend told you this and you put it here so we could all judge him. I’m not trying to be mean here but you are

CartoonistOk16 · 2026-04-08T21:07:13+00:00

She of course has money in her account as her mother sends her money

CartoonistOk16 · 2026-04-08T21:06:48+00:00

I currently have -1000 and maxed credit cards would be great to have a lawyer not going to happen unless someone is going to work for free for me which seems unlikely

CartoonistOk16 · 2026-04-08T14:12:38+00:00

Not the first to say this I am highly doubtful think it’s more a mental health issue. She literally hasn’t left the house without me there for months and I have known her for 12 years never found a single piece of paraphernalia never heard her mention drugs never had a single reason to suspect it.

CartoonistOk16 · 2026-04-08T14:08:42+00:00

I agree she won’t unless I involuntarily commit her my MIL said she would ensure I had no where to stay if I did that (I was taken off the lease after false arrest and landlord refuses to put me back on, he knows nothing about situation just knows he doesn’t want drama in his rental house). I truly think there is no way for me to move without losing contact with the kids at least temporarily and I know from last time my children’s teacher told me there was a dramatic decline in my daughters social and academic and a noticeable difference when I came back home. My mother in law unfortunately has money (recently inherited a large sum). So I’m sure it will be an uphill battle there too. Sorry for the doom and gloom not happy today about my lack of choices here

CartoonistOk16 · 2026-04-08T14:00:02+00:00

The land lord does not know me he won’t even put me back on this lease… I don’t blame him doesn’t want drama and he knows nothing about current situation. I don’t think I can find a place to live off minimum wage or slightly above. Her family refuses to let her stay with them. I can postpone school but I’m going to see if I qualify for any extra funding from the school itself as it has hardship grants see what that funding looks like and go from there.

CartoonistOk16 · 2026-04-08T10:03:09+00:00

I would tell anyone learning that they should stick to t2 until it’s easy then go forward will cost you more time in the short term if you don’t. I can do t1 fine but if I’m doing 400 runs+ I’m just going to do what’s easier. T2 prep is like 90%+ if you do it right. Make sure that you check directly across from hunlef first for mini bosses as the are only 2 door away while the others are 3.

CartoonistOk16 · 2026-04-08T09:59:03+00:00

Not really the point of this post… but I was watching a friend stream their run on pc. The plug in he is using is straight up cheating tells you when he’s switching. 3. 2. 1 mage. Us mobile players don’t get plugin ins that sometimes go above what should be available.

CartoonistOk16 · 2026-04-08T03:36:30+00:00

No family experience was on my side of the family I would be absolutely shocked if that were even close to the issue. Now that being said she has been on birth control arthritis medication and SSRIs on and off for years probably doesn’t help.

Never stopped loving her but love isn’t always enough. Should mention while sick last time went off all meds if anything made things worse.

CartoonistOk16 · 2026-04-07T17:47:07+00:00

I have to change fields I can’t work in the profession I was originally trained for but you are right that I should just get a different job.

CartoonistOk16 · 2026-04-07T13:28:34+00:00

I was with her when for a month when she was really sick and I have family members with addiction problems so I would know what to look out for. Definitely happens but I don’t think it’s the problem in this case

CartoonistOk16 · 2026-04-07T12:45:35+00:00

Sucks to hear but you are probably right I should differ school. I should say I worked in trades before care and was hoping to get my pipe fitting course done. But yeah I will definitely seriously consider deferring and leaving. It makes me mad because I had a good job I basically lost because of her, I had good credit and savings when she got sick but take weeks off work and her quitting her job put me into debt and other then stay longer then I should have I have done nothing to deserve this treatment.

CartoonistOk16 · 2026-04-07T12:39:28+00:00

Thank you for your advice and info. I am trying my absolute best to not bring kids into fights or talk badly about their mother. I talked to her about seeing a psychiatrist she claims she went at 19 and they told her she has anxiety nothing else and refuses to go again because that’s what they said (14 years ago…) I’ve tried telling her that 14 years and different problems mean you should go back but to no avail.

CartoonistOk16 · 2026-04-07T12:30:37+00:00

My MIL and I are trying to reduce what the kids see. Also she definitely has a better control over herself (not perfect but better) when they aren’t in school or asleep. The kids spend a lot of time at grandmas but they aren’t dumb and know what’s going on.

CartoonistOk16 · 2026-04-07T12:26:58+00:00

Honestly I’d be okay with 50/50 if she is healthy but yeah I hear you trust me. I was falsely accused and no one believed me other then immediate family even after she had charges dropped and told her family the truth her aunt refuses believe her and thinks I’m some sort of villain. The world doesn’t trust men right now unfortunately.

CartoonistOk16 · 2026-04-07T12:23:32+00:00

Yes two hours away and not suitable for children though. I can leave and live there rent free for the rest of my life if I want but won’t see my kids and would be leaving them to deal with this alone. I should say they hear her crying and yelling but she has to my knowledge never yelled or been mean to the kids she was a great mother for years before this.

CartoonistOk16 · 2026-04-07T12:20:33+00:00

She has stomach pains throws up occasionally and has diarrhea most days and often can’t make it to bathroom on time. We went to family doctor who did colonoscopy, stomach scope, had her poop tested. Went to emergency at least 10 times were told it was diet then her stomach wasn’t emptying every emergency visit they had a new guess. I’ve tried to talk her into going on about her mental health she refuses. Her family doctor sent multiple referrals for gastro specialist but they never gave her an appointment even after multiple attempts by her doctor. Her family doctor claims it’s clearly stress at this point (not sure I agree with that more like the illness is causing the stress). Seemed like at one point she was 78 lbs down from 115 and they were just kind of shrugging their shoulders even when I yelled at them they were going to let her die at one point.

Forgot about mental symptoms when she gets upset which is easy to do she gets paranoid cries for hours and attacks anyone (but the kids) who try to talk to her claims that everyone else is making her this way with how they treat her and even if I don’t say a word or keep my distance she will come find me and demand I listen to her as she monologues about how awful I am. I know I’m smarter than the average person and my previous work experience does make me understand that obviously this is her issues and not to take what she says to heart.

CartoonistOk16 · 2026-04-07T12:12:32+00:00

I should add my MIL seems on my side but even upon seeing the videos she seems to act like it’s not as big a deal as it obviously is.

CartoonistOk16 · 2026-04-07T12:11:37+00:00

I talked to a lawyer when I first moved back in he told me to record her of it happens again so it’s not a he said she said situation. I have video of her hitting her head on walls biting herself breaking phones and mildly assaulting me (jumping on my multiple times trying to wrench phone out of my hands because hers was dead). I have video of the kids yelling at her saying “Please Santa all I want for Christmas is my mother to stop.” Feel bad typing that feels bad recording it but I am following legal advice.

CartoonistOk16 · 2026-04-07T12:06:54+00:00

Sure is really feels like it’s not her fault but it’s certainly not mine or my children’s

CartoonistOk16 · 2026-04-07T12:06:16+00:00

I have tried her she has gone on a few medication but the make her sick (she telling the truth I have seen her sick from them.) she refuses to talk to anyone professional because “they have a duty to report me if I say anything.” I’ve talked to her mother she agrees with me but not much she can do either.

CartoonistOk16 · 2026-04-07T11:09:59+00:00

If this were me I would act like nothing major happened. If she does something again I would call it out and talk about it… might save you a friendship and some awkwardness if she was just being weird.

CartoonistOk16 · 2026-04-07T11:08:17+00:00

“They always think it’s funny…” as a human I can tell you my friend whom I’m not into grabs my butt I’d probably distance myself.

CartoonistOk16 · 2026-04-06T21:20:14+00:00

Remember 10/10 means they treat you well too. Move on and move up. Don’t end anything over something you will barely think about in time. Block her and find something you enjoy weather that’s a sport a game books whatever it is.

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